The first program I got into for PUA was SImplepickup Project Go, and I decided to just go up and approach and talk to ten women a day. I considered it a counted approach if I made a comment, she commented back, I made another comment and she responded back again... Not every approach did I ask for a number, though I started to much more. It was just to get rid of approach anxiety and destroy nervousness and start meeting women and learning how to talk to them.

So for two weeks I approached 10 women a day, sometimes a lot more, never less. On average, I was meeting about 100 women a week. I got about 10 numbers or so and about 2 of those became dates. Then the next week about 3 of those became dates. So I was on my way. I had five dates. After a lot of faux pas, awkward conversations, and no vibing, one of those 10 dates, turned into a second date, and I lost my virginity that night. It took three weeks, and I approached 300 women. I dated that girl for two weeks and we had a bit of sex, meanwhile, I went out with another 3 girls, and got a second date from one of them. I ended up getting laid again. I opened up an online dating with POF and OKcupid and got four dates off of that in a month, and I got laid by two of the women on there--they were a bit fat, but, I like big women, and they were really fun to be around.

Frankly it all began with just getting out there. All the PUA material in the world doesn't matter if you can't get out there and work it. It doesn't matter what you look like. I've gamed women when I just ran out in a tattered t, my thinning hair a mess, and my bulky stomach sticking out, and I've gotten great conversations and even a number or two.

No woman will even remember that you hit on her. So, just approach. I think I read on here somewhere Always Be Flirting, I'm not sure, but, I like the idea. Always Be Flirting. That's become my general rule. Never turn it off. Be a charmer and a flirt to everyone, the 20 year old tight ass beauty and the 70 year old women behind the counter, you'll hone your skills even faster, and women all around you will like you because you make them feel good. The only time you cut it out is when you're on a date.

I have realized that some people are not able to learn this stuff. Everyone can get better, but not good. For instance, people with Asperger's syndrome or people born with a very bad combination of genes (and thus have a very bad character due to biology).

And remember... Just by approaching, depending on how you do it and your opener, sends a clear signal that you are interested in the girl. With this comes the risk that she will reject you, just because you want something from her. Approaching 10 women a day can be good as a newbie mission to overcome your fears. But as you learn the game you will get better in both choosing the right girl, choosing the right situation, the right approach and so on, so you will minimize the effort and maximize the gain.