Walking into the room you spy three set of hotties. Just your type. You’re looking good, good posture; you’re ready to go getta ho. Perfect! But, wait. Why aren’t you approaching? Come on. You are a PUA. You know the skills. Come on! Geesh. Whah? You say you aren’t in the mood? Not in the mindset…..
We all had that experience. Not in the proper mindset. Getting into the proper mindset is crucial when gaming. When I have it I am on fire, when I don't I am extinguished. First, I would like to share a few techniques that help us get pumped up before finding someone to pump. Then, I would like to invite you to recommend any other techniques not mentioned here. Finally, it would be useful to know which techniques work the best (for you).
1) Using Anchors to attach distinct mindsets somewhere on the body ready to be used when needed. The anchors have to be distinct. One technique I observed a NY PUA using was wrapping a rubber band around his wrist. Each time when he was at the peak of the mindset that he wanted to “save” he would snap the rubber band against his wrist. Then it was just a matter of snapping the rubber band against his wrist to evoke it.
Another NLP technique that I found very useful is using the natural anchors already existing between your mind and body. Get into the correct body position! The body and mind are connected. That is, when you feel down/sad, your body assumes the down/sad position. Even when you are happy, if you slouch your shoulders, look down, and form your body to what it would be if you were sad, your state couldn’t help but change from happy to sad. The reverse, of course, is true. If you remember a time when you were confident or on fire, remember your posture and then emulate it. I have found this immensely useful.
2) Calling up friends and bullshitting while heading to the gaming venue. Shit, your friends are your friends cause they get you in a good mood. Use it. Call them, shoot the shit a bit, and then call another. You will be feeling pumped up and sociable in no time.
3) Blast bouncy, upbeat music when heading to the venue. Have you guys heard of “Sargin” by Turkish? Link here:
http://www.myspace.com/turkishdjdave. Good music to get you pumped up… whatever suites you.. hip hop, rock, techno, house… create a CD tailored just for this.
4) Surrounding yourself with high-energy guys that ooze positive energy. The mood of the group has a huge impact. Get some seasoned PUAs together and the group just oozes cool-ness. And when you have that vibe going, girls just gravitate toward your group. The opposite is also true. It is tough when you have a couple of guys just standing and observing. Pick your wingman wisely.
5) Self re-affirmations. I am sexy. I am unstoppable. I am the biggest, baddest pua with the fucking mostest, etc. … When I know I can fuck any girl in the room, I can. Beliefs are a powerful thing.
6) Look good. Make sure clothes are ironed and stylish. Join a gym. You would be amazed how better you sleep at night, how more alive you feel, and how much longer you can pound the ho giving her a feeling of pua heaven. Mrapta had mentioned the following technique he uses when going to the gym:
“Before each gym session, I sit down, close my eyes and picture myself as a yellowing greasy sponge, filled with Anxiety, Fear, Shyness and Inaction. As I work out, I picture the Sponge releasing those attributes and absorbing Confidence and Humour. At the end of the session while I'm in a shower, I picture myself as a brand new lean white sponge filled with Confidence and nothing else.
Not only that, a fair amount of physical movement is VERY important to keep my energy levels up. At least I dont fall asleep while commuting anymore”
Evoking the proper mindset is key to unlock the hearts of HBs. The above techniques help you get it. Now if you can recommend any other techniques have at it! Also, are any of these techniques more useful to you than others? It would be great to know which ones are most effective.
Mojo
CHAT
