It was our 4th date. It was a movie date at her place. No LMR She still wants to see me. And I am pretty sure that she isn't seeing anyone besides me. But I would really like to make her my girlfriend. Any suggestions?
I know she just might want to do it that way and no commitments.

Don't ask her to be your girlfriend ... just keep seeing her and hooking up with her and it will "happen"... that's the best way to do it.

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I second this.

Keep seeing other girls too. Don't become too needy on this one girl. Let her chase you and try and lock you down. If you make it too easy, you're going to creep her out.

as long as you're seeing her regularly, doing things other than booty calls like hanging out etc, and consider her your gf then she is. no need to seek verbal/written confirmation.

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For how long do you know her? I've recently broken up with my GF because I got into the relationship too fast. I broke up because the girl didn't suit me. My advice? Keep dating her, and wait a few more months to make sure she's the right person for you. Keep seeing other girls so that you will always have back-up. The first 3months are always exciting, but after 3 months you will realise if she's good for you, or not. Depends on how you screen her. If you don't believe me, read my journal at page 6, there you will find how I was very happy about.the girl first, and after 2 months not anymore due to bad screening.

Wallie

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I honestly believe that it is the girls job to bring up the what are we talk. Don't discuss anymore and let her bring it up. If you continue to bang her and hang out, whats the rush. Just let things happen naturally.

Good advice all around. Thanks guys.