Hi Chaps,

This is probabily fairly common, I broke up with my Mrs and started small by chatting to some girls on dating apps and I managed to snag a fitty. This girl is quite tidy and I got her facebook so she seems like the real deal.

The problem is I was giving it the massive cocky swagger on the app when chatting and have now been texting her on the phone. We have set up to meet for a drink on Tuesday and I am worrried that expectations v reality will be a bit shit.

Do I just go in their acting like my shit don't stink and try and blag it. Not looking for a relationship, I just want to get in there and try and knob the girl.

Cheers,

Congurrency is key. If you are full of shit she will smell it. Cocky funny is a great angle but focus on your frame over powering her mental frame. Remember she came out to see you. Show her the best you when are naturally feeling confident with that smile that says I know a joke you don't and the joke is your mine.