I've noticed that the guys who are very good at this have a very "loose" relationship with rationality i.e. a lot of what they say and do actually defies explanation and there is a draw to this.

I just had a conversation with a woman online that went like this:

Her: Outside sainsburys lol
Me: Well go and climb in the freezer then
Her: Get frozen nips lol x
Me: Along with all the other pork chops lol
Her: Pmsl x

What I said made absolutely no rational sense, and if you said that to a lot of guys they'd just say "what the fuck are you talking about?" but it seems like women love it when you just step right off the map of rationality and just say whatever.

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If something's not fun, it's not worth doing

Yes. Women love this conversational style while most men do not.

It's also basically a calibration tool. When a girl rides along the fantasy-role play banter, you're getting compliance and mirroring.

It takes a lot of sarging experience to realize this. I have observed in this forum that the guys who comment in the negative on fantasy-role play banters are the biggest KJs around.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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