1. Attraction.
This is the one that 99% of all of you work on and what I've seen on the forums for the past 3 years.. How can I be more alpha brah? How tight do my pants have to be to show the girl I've got balls? Come at me brah. How do I get her interested so that she wonders whose that lad over there...More importantly, how many milliseconds must I wait to touch her before I reach them sugarwallzzzz? Wait is it 5 seconds before i grab hand then 3 when I kiss or which do i do first? High five all women around you (social proof), poker face, qualifiers..she says she doesn't give head bc she's catholic hmmm you look away from her (I don't know..but I like a girl who likes giving head) She then curls her hair bw her fingertips and gets right on your balls to qualify..well you know sometimes I'm for it when I'm feeling naughty...so on so on

2. Gay
I came across this one at the very end due to already being attractive. The reason I say gay is because of the movie What Women Want both american and asian versions. The man was attractive, alpha, but wasn't sentimental until he earned the ability to hear their thoughts. He became very considerate and sentimental, getting into the minds of women. It got so bad that he forgot about attraction they thought he was gay bc he would only connect with them. To seduce and pick up, you must attract the outside and the inside as well. This is where all the shit testing and smooth talk falls in. "You're a player! You didn't ask me out yesterday as you promised" you were actually fucking another girl and forgot, your reply "I didnt want to ask you out after all......I want to take it slow..because..i...i think im falling for you.." girl likes what she hears aww hes so thoughtful. You have to calibrate all of this based on her responses, the underlying tone. You are so creepy means I think you made a move too fast, etc. Etc. So be a little gay and connect, forget that you're trying to pick her up.

These two elements are affected by environment, type of girl, much more. Some want less cock and more connection, others want you to escalate faster. This is only if she's interested. Both of these elements are necessary but when and how much of each can only be found through calibration. If you make a lame joke and she laughs at you saying haha you are so gay it means you need to exude more masculinity..so do it!

Women are to consideration as men are to assertiveness. Many times seduction and dating goes down hill because each person's balance between the two doesn't match the others. You are being too masculine and inconsiderate as a result she takes it wrong way or vice versa. The secret to pick up once and for all is calibration with intuition. Like I said many interactions go downhill simply because of miscommunication due to a mismatch in the couples balance of the two elements. You are connecting too much with her and not showing attraction and you don't pick up on it. A true player is able to notice these things and adapt to the situation accordingly to make tbe seduction mutual. So the girl doesn't think he's a cocky player, he connects more. So the girl doesn't think he's just a friend, he puts more cock into it.(pun intended)

That's all it is.

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