Hey gents, i recently finished " the game" and decided to give it a chance...

First sarge: I don't even know if this was a pickup attempt by me or not because it was 2am on new years eve and i was pretty drunk. Anyways the first girl i saw at this party was sitting on the couch by herself i don't remember what i said but ended moving the hair out of her face and telling her to kiss me, i felt like i had a spell on her the way she looked at me and when i was just expecting a smooch she wanted to makeout. so with my confidence soaring i made eye contact with another girl at the party, i don't remember much from this one early on but i remember making out with her again and then i convinced her to bring me back to her place however the plan fell through and she had a roommate come and pick me and her up and she asked me where i lived, but before we got picked up she brought to her car and we made out. I really was on top of the world and most of my friends had no idea what was going on both of these girls were 7s. and this all occured within twenty minutes at the party.

Second sarge: with my confidence fairly high and just beginning to discover this online community i decided to give it another try at a local college bar. I opened a total of 3 sets that night however didn't get past an opinion opener. However the one particular set started out with me telling them to come and sit down with me and my friends. At this point there were 3 and i was ignoring the hottest one by only talking to her friend. At this point we had the introductions down (they asked our names) but for whatever reasons these girls except for the one i was talking to left. With her still sitting with us i told her to pick a number between 1 and 4 and then a card suit. She told me that i guessed wrong but i think that she was lying because she smiled and looked away. anyways to make a long story short i negged her by calling her a bitch which i thought she kinda was but she gave me 2 IOIs. I called her a bitch one two many times and she slapped me twice in front of everyone and i really started stuttering so i left. when everyone was leaving i saw her talking with another guy, so i went up to her and grabbing both arms and talking into her ear said i hope you aren't too upset and give me a kiss it worked and to top it off i handed her my phone and told her to put her number in it.

So what should i have done differently and how should i follow up with the number.

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Push it to the Limit

Haha, uhm... wow.
This post was mildly entertaining.
The "first sarge" could be explained with a shot of tequilla...
The "second sarge" was interesting.

You're definitely just beginning, I can tell that much.
But it seems like your outstanding confidence is taking you places.

I don't call girls bitches..... not even when joking around with the guys.
You need to find a new way to neg..... about something she's saying, doing, wearing... etc.

I know, I know... a real break-through, loaded with information, right?

Uhm..... with the multiple girl set, it's better to go to them at the start, not call them to you..... not cause it can't be done, but because it puts you in the uncomfortable position instead of them, versus them coming to you.

Then, you should've been addressing ALL the girls, but focusing on the targets friends.
I try to keep my focus balanced mostly, just barely tipping the scale.
What hooks the target is throwing a neg about her to her friends.
And I'm not talking about, "Is your friend always such a bitch?"
No no no no no.
It has to be humorous, and subtle.

When you call, make it a short convo.
Say something cocky funny about that night with her.
Then invite her to something short and harmless, like a trip to Starbucks.
Keep up the cocky funny, blah blah blah.

Although you posted this like, a week and a half ago...
so what I'm telling you might be useless now.
*shrug*
You win some, you lose some.

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You can learn and learn and learn all you want... but until you go out and use it, it doesn't mean a thing.

hair out of her face and telling her to kiss me

When you move a girls hair or touch it and she allows you that means your in the ball, you can do that as a trust test and kino escalator. Don't forget what you just did! And stop drinking! solid game has no alcohol.

however didn't get past an opinion opener.
Their opinions dont matter, the only thing that matters is that they are paying attention to you. I think you stayed in there way to long waiting for a opinion, and you didnt realise that it has nothing to do about what they say. If they dont reply and look at you just go into your next routine.


i negged her by calling her a bitch which i thought she kinda was but she gave me 2 IOIs. I called her a bitch one two many times and she slapped me twice in front of everyone and i really started stuttering so i left. when everyone was leaving i saw her talking with another guy, so i went up to her and grabbing both arms and talking into her ear said i hope you aren't too upset and give me a kiss it worked and to top it off i handed her my phone and told her to put her number in it.

Thats a total disaster. You don't call a girl a bitch, thats rude that is not a neg. A neg is: "asking her if her nails are real or not, and if she says not real than say oh.......... well... they are nice anyway... " Her slapping you? thats called a shut down! You should have turned around and pointed towards your ass and said what about here? its missing out on all the action ! But you left, you demonstrated, lower value, she started talking to another guy, you got blown out of your target. Game over!

Better luck next time!
all the best

-Impact

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