Ok so heres the deal, ive been dating this girl for about a month now. I see her about once a week. Everything went real well the first few weeks, I kiss closed her after the first date and have been building from there with alot of IOI. However it seems around the holidays things got alittle busy and I got fewer phone calls. so I left for vacation in flordia and called her twice while I was there. she returned on of my calls just to tell me that she was busy and out to dinner. So I fly in on new years eve and she wanted to see me. so I told her I would be over alittle before midnight. To make a longstory short she ends up standing me up on new years eve because apparently she fell asleep. So i stopped calling her and she called me to apologize for standing me up and to tell me she would make it up to me and so forth. So its now been a week without talking because i figure she should be the one to call me back. Anyone have any suggestions how I can just full close her and be done with it. [/b]

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-Desire-

Ya see this is what I'm talking about, all I'm hearing lately is "this girl that this girl this", god damn it people pickup is about improving yourself and being better at pickup overall not about getting this one girl!!!

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You are right jaxin, I cant argue with you on that. But i guess my question would be how do u let a woman know that you dont put up with her not calling you back and canceling. Is it as easy as stop talking to her and move on? Because if she is doing that to test you, what do u normally do to pass those type of tests.

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-Desire-

she dicked you over once, she obviously did it on purpose...no girl falls alseep on new years eve...move on

You can try the One Last Call routine I've seen around. Just give her a call and let her know that you won't be putting up with that sort of activity. She's got one last chance to return your call, or you will not be answering any of hers.

After that, go out and get yourself a new girlfriend or twelve.

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Alright here's my advice, take it or leave it.
Look the chick probably really was asleep during New Year's, its not like you saw her an hour ago then next thing you know she comes up with that excuse.
She probably didn't calll because she thought it was over, or she's really busy.
Give her a call be like "hey (girl's name) I was coming home from work today and I saw (fill in blank) and it reminded me of you because (blank) ,so I thought of calling you."
This is something that I made up on the spot, I would advise that you use all this emotionally vague talk. This stuff works great because you're in comfort with her and during comfort she needs this kind of thing to feel comfortable around you, just remember not to seem desperate or needy and you'll do fine.

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Thank you all for ure imput. i tried the last call idea and she tried to act like she was too busy for my call. so i hung up and put her behind me. plus jaxin is right. i had oneitis over her when i should really be improving my skills.

Thanks Again,

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glad to hear it

No Prob bro, just helping out another brother in the game.

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"It's gonna be like Cabo in my PANTS!"

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