| I've had some personal experience with your situation for a prolonged period of time. There is only one answer to your problem. You can't make her feel like you expect her to sleep with you. Sounds easy enough, but here's the problem...Some guys think they're good actors and when they say "No it's cool, I don't mind..." to their gf's who won't sleep with them, their body language speaks volumes about what they're actually thinking. Girls can instantly pickup on this, and realize they have something that you want.
Now the solution to this is hard, but I know for a fact that it works. It's a combination of stuff that I learned from experience, and Men's Health lol. For a month don't even ask about sex! This way next your kissing her neck or giving her a massage, she doesn't think you have other motives. Next, you have to really exhibit self control. If your getting all worked up, then next time your by yourself go wank it or something. You have to be completely in control of your own sexuality, and not depend on her for ANYTHING! Lastly, stay the fuck out of her "bubble". What this means is don't get too touchy feely with her (kissing, hugging, hand holding). Let there be some anticipation, so next you kiss her neck you send a shiver down her spine. While you have your space, make sure to develop good communication with her. She values this more then you can imagine.
You'll all experience different levels of success with this, but I know when I used it on my gf she did ANYTHING I wanted sexually (after trying to hold out).
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