Hey wats up. Im relatively new to this forum. The situation is that I have met this girl last weekend in college and pretty much made out with her the first night out. Then this weekend came along and her best friend from high school came up so we pretty much showed her a good time at a party. But overall, it was just hard to have a good time with the girl im trying to get with because she just wanted to be with her best friend the whole time. And so I left. I call her the next day and she said she wanted to apologize because she thought she was being rude and I said it was okay I was just tired and left and after that I made dinner plans and told her to call me when she was available. She doesn't call so I call her around 6pm to see what was up but she didnt pick up. But later that night she calls me and I dont pick up. And about a half hour later, she txts me saying she was sorry she didnt call me back since she was busy hanging out with her roommate from last year but wanted to hang out sometime this week. And so about an hour later, I txt her back and say, "alright thats fine. Night." All in all, I feel she didnt care about our plans. What do you guys recommend I do?

Dude do you play CounterStrike Source? I think I've played you before!

Anyway, there's just so many things inherently AFC to what you just described, I would suggest you read the book:

The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists
By Neil Strauss

And then reexamine your situation.

As for some quick, patch it up advice: Sever all contact with her for 1 week. Yep, sounds harsh. But do it. This is called a "freezeout" in PUA terms (there's a thread with commonly used PUA terms in the newbie section, very useful).

Then, during this week, read The Game, and decide how to approach this problem from. I promise you, it will really open your eyes.

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haha yea i do play source here n there...good deal. As for the advice, Ill give it a shot, although I often hang out with her roommate to go to the gym. Yea and Im defn gonna pick up a copy of the Game...Thx bro, appreciate it.