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PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 5:48 am 
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I was just reading something about NLP from Darren Brown called the Hand Shake interrupt. He's basically saying(and he's using a business scenario), "hello my name is Blah, i'm sure we'll work good together."

He says that it wll put them in a minor trance as their mind is in a "blank state" because they are concentrating on their hand so the statement/hand anchor goes to you. And i think quickly afterwards you can jingle your keys or snap to solidify the anchor. Make sense?

For PUA style that's too serious like, so maybe..."we'll probably get along."
It shows a very optimistic way, but then again somewhat implying that you don't always get along with people(possible DHV that you have high standards?)

ANy ideas/thoughts on this?


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 5:30 pm 
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I was just reading something about NLP from Darren Brown called the Hand Shake interrupt. He's basically saying(and he's using a business scenario), "hello my name is Blah, i'm sure we'll work good together."

He says that it wll put them in a minor trance as their mind is in a "blank state" because they are concentrating on their hand so the statement/hand anchor goes to you. And i think quickly afterwards you can jingle your keys or snap to solidify the anchor. Make sense?

For PUA style that's too serious like, so maybe..."we'll probably get along."
It shows a very optimistic way, but then again somewhat implying that you don't always get along with people(possible DHV that you have high standards?)

ANy ideas/thoughts on this?
Very interesting stuff, I was actually talking about NLP today with another member on the forum, and im taking a look at some of ross jeffries stuff. I don' really know much about the topic at the moment but it seems very interesting!


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 7:22 pm 
Doc is the one to ask about the NLP.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:10 pm 
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I will often compliment a woman when I shake her hand (if I do)... I do this because it makes her feel good and is associated with our hands touching also. An anchor can't be created without repetition... at least 3-5 times at a BARE minimum... So to anchor our hand to hand kino I might touch her hand again with mine while we are both laughing at a joke... or thumbwrestle and be joking and funny the whole time... Repeting the same basic action and the same basic result will build the associating sub conciously... weather the 2 things are indeed linked or not is irrelevant.

The result? After a short while when I hold my hand(s) out to this she will want to grab it/them because she associates pleasure with your hands touching.. make sense?

NLP like this can be very natural and non-invasive which is why I use it (without really thinking about it, honestly anymore)... and theres nothing wrong with getting a girl to enjoy physical contact with you or something of the like... were as for my personal morals some of the Ross Jeffries techniques with eliciting a trance, etc... are just to invasive and to much like brainwashing to me. IMO the Milton model portion of NLP (Derived from Hypnotheropy) should be left in the relm of theropy, not used to pickup women... that said I see nothing wrong with using elements of the other 2 models to attract women.


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