I haven't tried this yet b/c i had just thought of it....but it seems possible.

There's times where a conversation topic will be gold and then the energy drops as you move to another subject. Although i'm bad at cold reading and finding a subject of interest in the other person...if i were to get lucky or even raise the energy levels of the interaction slightly....

If for example i grab my wrist with my other hand...or touch my chest as i sense her interest on the conversation increasing...will this act as an energy boost when i sense things are dying down?

Thanks for reading!

It may work. Actually better is to, before you go out, do this: relax, remember one time you were in the state you want to anchor, and visualize it. See yourself again, first from third person view (damn, everyone who looked at you saw that guy rocking!) and then in first person view (damn I rock) and make an anchor. Then, interrupt the state and repeat the process. After 5-10 repeats you should have solid anchor, that will work for you several days.

To anchor yourself in a convo? Well, try it out but better may be to anchor yourself AND her. Or, to drop the NLP part (I don't want to sound like Ross Jeffries) just move to another passionate conversational theme and when things get little low, resurrect the first theme. It will all come back - feelings, rapport, everything. Key it to make it natural - but don't expect it to work several times. Once resurrected theme will die out the second time. Also, give yourself some time before abandoning theme and its resurrection.

Carpe Diem.

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I tried anchoring once, told someone to remember the last time they were in love and then I put my hand on their thigh. Then whenever I did it after that they told me they felt a feeling of love whenever I did it. not sure if they were humoring me or if it actually worked

Solid advice right there, I have myself anchored tosnapping my middle finger and thumb on my right hand... It put's me right into an empowered state.


As for anchoring her if you intend to do it, I'd say one of the easier emotions to anchor is the happiness one feels during laughter.

For it to work you must establish yourself as a natural kino'er... your just the kind of guy who touches people your talking to in a non-invasive way. Then when you tell a joke or say something funny and your BOTH laughing touch her shoulder... or upper arm near the shoulder. Do the same when she says something funny and your both laughing. After you've done that a couple of times you'll be able to crack a joke, start laughing at yourself and touch her shoulder and she'll start laughing to... effective anchoring should seem natural and congruent... if it's not natural feeling for you... it won't feel natural for her either.

As for full fledged patterns (speed seduction style), personally I'm not a big fan. I like natural anchoring and other less invasive NLP techniques (like conditioning, and tranformational vocabulary).