I dunno I just thought about taking this girl on this scary drive to a graveyard or somethin. Get the blood pumping, if shes kinda scared and then just make my move while shes vulnerable. Good idea? Its been done before of course.

You are overthinking. I know from personal experience that it's a LOT easier to dish this advice out than it is to take it, but seriously... all you have to do is force yourself to "not care" (as in, not think about it) and you will be successful. You only even have to do it long enough to be successful.

I'll throw in a personal story to try and drive this point home for you.

A while ago, I met the first girl I had some form of interest in after my last girlfriend. I decided, I had to get with her... I had to prove to myself that I'm not the loser that's depressed over his ex girlfriend and can't get anywhere with women ever again that I thought I was. Needless to say, this kind of became a daunting task... I almost felt like if I didn't succeed this one time, I was forever doomed to being a lonely porn connoisseur. ANYWAY, the point is, that I noticed myself starting to overthink, since I for some reason had it in my head that it was going to decide the path I walk in the future. I also realized that by overthinking and worrying like that, I was going to ruin it and that fear of failure would come true.

So I told myself, fuck it. I made a very strong conscious effort to overcome those feelings (if only I could do that for my oneitis, haha.) and I just ran my natural internalized game. It worked and within 2 days we were on her couch naked.

So basically, do your absolute best to not come up with these huge "what-if" lists. I know it's tough because I still do it myself. Your situation is one of the easier situations to overcome in my opinion though, because you say you don't have much in the way of feelings for her. This is good, because take it from me, feelings can and will FUCK you. hard.

Just do what comes natural. That is, what comes natural after you have erased the negative/beta male/AFC traits from your personality. If you don't have feelings for her, then it will be easier to not worry about a specific outcome, and it will become easy to succeed.

Good luck... not that you really need it, you will OWN if you can just get over the overthinking problem. Let us know how it goes.

dmagoo, first off welcome to the forum. Second, i think the idea is good. However at some point in the evening, preferably the graveyard i recommend letting her get at least a step in front of you. Then disappearing real quick.. only to have her backtrack and you jump out and scare her. This should get the moisting goin. Keep a lively sense about yourself as to not bore her and go get em man. Don't forget kino in the graveyard, maybe a hand hold escort through it.[/i]