Well this girl i have been talking to sends me a message the other night telling me she loves me. This is a girl i have been trying to get with for a while now. The problem is she wont come hang out with me because she has a BF and she said she dont wont to lose him. I know it is very confusing to me. so what should i do in this situation?

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She wants you as a lover, and BF as a provider. Other ways; he pays for her clothes, you get under them. That is how you said it. I say you are golden; go fuck her. Or dump her, if she doesn't put out. Try to figure it out.

Carpe Diem.

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You don't know the future, you can't change the past. The only thing that matters is THE CURRENT MOMENT.

Coming from a girl who has done this to guys in high school: She's exploring her options. She's going to stay with her BF until something goes wrong, she's probably just ensuring that she can hop from him to you when and if that happens. That's at least what it sounds like to me.

However, she could be looking to cheat on him with you because I've certainly done that too...but she probably won't date you (even after the breakup) if you hook up with her while she's still dating the other guy. It's just a matter of f'ed up high school girl principle mixed in with social pressure.

Dude, it depends on what you want. If you want to just mess around with her, then you could probably work your way into doing just that.

If you want to date her, there are other things to consider.

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Or she's looking for you to buy her things while she sleeps with her boyfriend.

Thanks all of you.

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The Drug