Hey what's up guys?

Do you guys ever tell a girl when you're done wasting your time with her? To be honest i really can't think of a legit reason to tell a girl this instead of just simply stop calling to hang out/less attention when you see her/etc.

Shit like when she tells you to stop by when i'm done with w/e im doing..and then after i'm done partying i'll call and she won't pick up. Just annoying shit that only someone trying to play games would do.

For some reason in the past (maybe AFC or not) ..i would get some sort of satisfication saying "you think you can play games with me...we'll i'm done with you". I've read that mystery said you have to be willing to lose the girl by being bold...but i'm not sure if this applies? Thanks for reading!

Yeah, I've told several girls I met since doing this game that I'm done wasting my time. For example, not all that long ago. I had a girl get way to complacent with me. At first we had a lot of push-pull. I would neg her, she'd fire back, it was fun. After the f-close, she got really easy to walk over. I personally like to get as good as I give. After a few attempts when I was with her to get that part of her personality back out, I told her I was done wasting time with seeing her.

As most any women will, she asked, "WHY?" Be ready for that question and have some real answers for her. I told her, "Do you really want to know the answer or do you just want me to tell you some shit, because the truth hurts sometimes." She said, "The truth" I told her, "I'm bored you don't play hard to get enough, we differ on this and that, and I'm moving on."

Then I got the, "Can we still be friends?" - That decision you have to make for yourself.

Good Luck,

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Oh yes. I've told girls that before I knew about the game, and since I've been involved in the game, both.

LOL, see, I've always had that cocky edge to my personality.

Honestly, slyder, there's nothing wrong with you telling a girl that you're done with her, and WHY you're done with her. Nothing wrong with that at all. She may end up having an epiphany because of it. Who knows? She may change and you may actually decide to give her another chance. That's all up to you. But, yes, it's a good thing to tell a girl that.

And yes, you should ALWAYS be willing to lose the girl by being bold.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

This is such a trueism it hurts to think how many people i have let me feel down, out and abused/used.

If the girl isnt picking up stop telling her you'll call her. Worst case when they give you a time frame to call say, "How bout you call me when your done/out/up/later...etc"

If they push it simply say, "Ill call you when im up for talking, and when you feel like talking you should call me...if you wana talk to me after im done at the party, call me."

She is most likely asking you compliance questions like that because she wants to see if you'll do it, not to talk to you after the party.

If you get to the point were you are feed up with the BS, then simply ignore her or tell her straight up. Like Jsmooth said be ready to explain yourself, in an adult manner. He had a good reason, her not calling you back isnt a good reason.

Hope this helps.

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"Be the same, only better."

Yes sir, I have told some girls to hit the bricks sweets, and I don't have any qualms about doing it again. Seriously, before I became enthralled with learning some new ways for success, i personally coined the acronym: W.O.M.T.G. and that stands for Waste OF My Time Girls. I have met many who holds that title, and they all always get tossed.

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i lust for jessica alba, but now since she is preggers. I am lusting for Nicole!!! It's New Year's Day. It was Ben Franklin who said, "Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man."

Great thread, great posts. I'm going to have to have a little talk with two girls within the next day or two. Thanks.