Ok anyways, I am trying to figure out how to meet this girl. It's not oneitis or anything. Just an old flame from highschool, I met her again at the bar on the 23rd and didn't close because as I said I was trying to game every girl in the bar. However I did get her number from her friend who wants to remain nameless in the number info. So I tried to txt this girl and "act like I got a number last night and don't know who it was" I basically was cut down and told "Well I don't give my number out so someone gave you the wrong number so have a merry christmas." I sent her one txt to try and get her "name" but I go no replies. So here I am trying to figure out how to try and arrange a meeting with her. She knows my number, but yet doesn't know who I am.. well in the number sense, in real life she knows me well. She is the manager at the movie theater here in town... but I don't wanna stalk her lol I am not that desperate. In case you didn't read before no I don't have oneitis. So anyone have any GOOD suggestions.

Sounds like you are in a good situation. Kind of planted a seed in her head that you are a player, by saying you are gaming every girl. The odd part is that I hope you didn't say it in that actuall meaning. You automatically seemed like a predator out on the hunt . Well from my perspective I think you should bring a chick to the movies and hopefully find the time this girl is working so you can show that you are pre-selected and that your gaming efforts pay's off. Especially if she see's you having a blast waiting in line for the tickets with the girl you brought in. Other than that msging stuff hiding your identity could make or break you with this chick because you already are showing interest, once she matches your number to your face if by some chance you get her number the appropriate way in the future. You have ballz, all the best Shaft.

I really could care less if a girl knows I have game. I mean it's not like I am a player. There is a difference between players and PUAs. Players have to lie to woman, they don't admit to anything. A true PUA will admit to anything and is not afraid to let a girl knows who or what he is. As for the taking another girl to a movie.... that might work. Infact I will take one of my friends, whom of which there is no sexual tension so I can just go out and have a good time. If she does match up my number with my face, well. I can work my way around that.

I'm going to suggest something a little strange for me: why don't you try some direct game? I remember there was a guy kicking around the forums when I first started who would suggest to everyone that they simply tell girls "I like you, I want to get to know you." Just so that we're clear, an approach like this seldom gets the response you want, especially if you're new to the Game. If, however, it is someone you've known for a while, and you're looking at getting to know that person again, it's a good way to get out for an intimate date-type get-together.

Shaft (From a payphone): Hey, is this HBHighschool that used to go to Such-and-such?
HBHighschool: Um... Yeah...
Shaft: Hey, it's Shaft. I was looking through my yearbook the other day, and I realized we haven't really talked in, like, forever.
HBHighschool: Um... Yeah, I guess we haven't. How've you been?
Shaft: Not bad. Listen, I was headed out for a cup of coffee. You should come. We'll catch up.
HBHighschool: Yeah, ok.

Then go out to coffee. Talk about old times. Talk about new times. 4Rs. Escalate. Ulterior Motive your way back to your place. Wear a condom.

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Hmmm... I like your idea Wade... but how can I say I got her number, she has a new phone.... Unless I call her house first.... excellent... it's all falling into place.

Sup Shaft , Monkey's Idea is a good one , you should call her from your phone house to her home house and talk about old times and how fun that was , and try to arrange a meeting...

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Good ideas...one question...How long has it been since highschool?

Because a good amount of girls will find that "weird" if its over a certain amount of time. Just playing devils advocate here. A good alternative to the girl to the movie is use your friends as leverage to get her. Go with a group of buddies to the movies and instead of letting her see you with a girl, let her see you as an alpha male of the group, make sure you keep your friends happy and having fun/laughing/being loud/enjoying the stupid movie your about to watch before you even go in there. You can try and approach her afterwards like you just noticed her, now that you have your alpha male/fun loving image projected into her pysche, things should run alot smoother. Or you could also opt to wait for another time (dont wait to long or that image will fade) so it apears as if she is not a priority.

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