So I was going down to the subway when I saw this girl. Way past the 3 second rule when the train came and she looked dumb...like she had no idea where she was going. So I said you look lost, to her reply YEAH!...so I didn't get on the train and we figured out where she needed to go. Her friends were lost, phones all dead, and she was stranded...perfect!

We hop on the next train and we head in similar directions. I said that since she can't find anyone that we need to go get a drink and walk manhattan. She was totally game and things were running smooth. She told me that she had 2 kids, was divorced and she was only 27...this girl was an easy 8.5.

We hit a lounge and we hit it off...Lots of kino on both sides. She said that she was going back to school and I used this as a perfect time to use the ESP opener. I said that I was out of school but that a roommate and I were taking a learning annex on ESP and if she wanted to try it. Great Kino moment as she gave me both her hands and I asked her to pick a number between one and 10.

I think this is the best part. I guessed 7, but it was 6.
ME: Really? Where you thinking 7?
HB: I was at first but then changed.
ME: Damn, I should have known...maybe I should go and get my money back, this class is full of shit!
HB: Laughing hard! What else are you learning?
ME: well we haven't gotten to palm reading yet but would you care to be bullshitted for the next 10 min?

Great session of conversation...she was laughing all good with lots of kino.

Her freinds show up and then leave, they invite her to go with but she says that she is going to stay. I get a call from a roommate and she wants to do more. The night ends at my place, she is in my bed, and NOTHING HAPPENS. I was getting the mixed vibe of the BFF all night and I even teased her here and there that if she keeps acting like this that our sex life together is going to suffer b/c I won't be putting out.

My problem is that it was 5am, she is from out of town, and in my bed, I COULDN"T GET ANYWHERE!! Get me out of this rut of being the freind and into the game of being the lay....HELP!

Well, alright. You've gotten her into your bed. You didn't really tell us how you got her there. We have no idea why she's at your house (did you use an ulterior motive, or are you there for sex?). I am going to assume a couple of simple things and move on from there.

Assumption 1) You moved too fast. There is a length of time that is "acceptable" in how long it takes you to get a woman naked and writhing. Mystery says seven hours. I say five. In that time, there are a lot of steps that need to be executed to perfection if the interaction is going to end in sex. If you can't do perfection, you're looking at closer to ten hours.

Assumption 2) You didn't freeze. Freeze-outs are likely the most important aspect of end game. You need to turn the tables on her. If she doesn't want to go all the way with you, you don't want to touch her at all. Get up, put your pants on, and get a glass of water or something. Make her work to get your attention back. She was feeling good a minute ago, and wants to feel good again. When she does work to get your attention back, you can push the boundaries a little further. In fact, sometimes you only need to freeze out once for a full close. Most of the time though, it will take two or three freezes to get where you need to be.

Having said that, it appears to me that your theory is far from where it should be. Buy some books. Read them all. It'll keep me from repeating myself over and over again (I think I've done freeze-out posts at least three times...)

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