I have this friend...she's about an 8. Once upon a time in my AFC days I asked her out when we first met- the problem was I didn't realize she'd bring her boyfriend to the date. LOL - none the less we have remained friends.

Honestly- I am pretty much the only person she knows that really "gets" her. Like to everyone else she is a total mystery and they don't get why she does the things she does. Not to me. I get her and she's even admitted it. I am pretty sure I am still a mystery to her though.

Here is this issue. She is not under any circumstance one-itis or friend zone where I am madly in love. I have never really considered her like that, she's too..... volatile....not too mention she has ridiculously low self esteem. When I ran the cube on her, the cube was buried under the desert! I just never considered her for anything like a relationship or anything....

That said: the way we communicate most of the time is strange and it gets worse....first any time we interact it's one giant shit test, eventually I get the real her, then she runs or acts like a bitch...it's her...I accepted that long ago, it's not that big of a deal to me.

Today is a prime example:

Me: Hatecherface

Her: Stop flirting with me, kthanx

Me: My god your arrogant! Flatter yourself much? You're famous btw, I took this stripper out and she agrees it was settling.

Her: Everyday and huh?

Me: About splitting up. Nvmd.

Her: Everybody agrees with me. Duh

Me: Lies. You're so friggin full of yourself. This is why we wouldn't work- I am hotter than you, plus I'd leave you with the check on our fake dates

Her: You're so gay, you just called yourself pretty.

Me: No dice. Remember when we said we'd get married at 60 if we werent married? I want a divorce, you keep the kids, I get house and boat...

AND SO ON AND ON AND ON it is one massive shit test...which I normally win. Most guys really don't know how to handle it. I can only imagine what it would be like running game on her.... With her self esteem she thinks she is a 4, but acts like a 10.

To make matters worse, she was engaged recently. Before I got harmless's BFD routine I tried to talk her out it, along with everyone else. Some of her friends, his friends and mutual friends asked me to keep it from happening (he was kind of wimpy passive aggressive douche) so I relented- after a week of BFD, the engagement was done. I am shocked BFD worked that fast, the day they broke up I got 117 texts from her!

We were suppose to go out, which she made sure to point out wasn't a date, which I gave her the response: "are you serious? don't I complain about girls like you?"but I cancelled, then she got a little pissed, I called her boring, then we didnt talk for a couple days until I told her I hated her today.

Here's my question- despite the fact she isn't a total mystery to me I am finding it harder and harder to look at her objectively....is she waiting on me to make a move or something? Seriously, what the hell is going on? She shoots down any sort of hints that way, unless I shot them down first....and frankly I don't think she's girlfriend material unless she can settle down....but does anyone else have or had a female friend like this? She has INCREDIBLY hot friends who she refuses to introduce me to...actually the one night she wanted me to meet them I was working late and she got pissed....seriously, wtf is going on? This has gone on for 2 years....and I am kind of at a loss....if it weren't for the BFD being a success I wouldn't even have thought about any of this....but something odd has been going on....in some ways I think she is confused by me...here is a male that doesn't take her shit, gives it right back and refuses to chase her....which is the opposite of what everyone else does. Plus she is a total flirt and loves attention from men... I can even deal with all that, but it is a 2 year long shit test with her....like she is constantly testing my defenses...Any thoughts?

sounds like she maybe sorta got comfortable around you even tho you dont play her shit etc. what do you want with this chick? it sounds like a relationship but she doesnt sound very interested unfortunately. since youve got lots of comfort you can start doing small freezeouts and jealousy plotlines that should catch her attention making her invest some more hopefully.

I don't want a relationship....Im not sure what I want- it just seems very off....I do freeze outs all the time, which she breaks...


I actually called her out for the shit tests today- she flipped it around and the started accusing me of liking her- and kept wanting to reinforce the notion she isn't interested, when I pressed on how she came to that conclusion (I never hit on her, if anything I am kind of dick), and then asked why she had to keep reinforcing it this notion, she just dodged the questions....its seems very strange and boring.

First off . . . Find out what you want with this girl. Make it crystal clear for yourself.

Second, you tease her and you're trying to move the interaction forward - without actually hitting on her and with denial of liking her . . . HOW?

Sooner or later you gotta start interacting with her on a personal and sexual level. Teasing only gets you so far. Right now you're being a clown, and nothing more.

Know what you want, how to get there, and then execute it.

Yeah- I ended up snapping last night and just told her- "Since you seem to assume you know my side of things, I might as well let you know. You're really cute, fun, funny, smart, charming ect ect- but you don't realize it and that's the problem. You don't love yourself, and thats why I dont see you like "that"" her only response was "Cool"

There is no way to read into one word- so I am going to drop it. Besides the world is full of women.

That said- I have been noticing a change in all my female friends. Since really getting into the game they've all started acting odd....just like this one.

One seems to do nothing but talk about sex with me- even though I have never heard her talk like that. She gets really jealous if I talk about other women, and really wants to see me a lot.

Another is saying she's scared of what will happen if we hang out too much and her boyfriend is getting jealous.

This one didn't start acting like this until I ran BF destroyer on her, which worked, very quickly.

I have a lot more female friends beginning to act strangely.

I think the problem is, I use my female friends as either pivots or, sounding boards for routines and such- which would only send mixed messages to them- so, I guess I got to stop running game on them....oops. LOL

You are clueless as to what you want, and how you get to it.

All I see is a post which has no actual purpose and something about a whinge about two year shit tests.

Have you tried hitting on her? If not, why? Try it, and then we'll see waht happens.

Yeah- just like my previous post, what I think I am doing is just playing around with them- running routines, but nothing more than that- which is one reason they are acting like this....kind of a shit or get off the pot type thing....some are being direct, others arent...but I can see how it seems like I am playing games with them...and her.

It was never my intention to led any of these girls on- I just used them to try out routines, and game or, as pivots and wings....I didn't think some of this shit was THAT powerful. But basically (and I didn't realize it till now) I have been building a shit ton of attraction and tension without any purpose which has GOT to drive them fucking nuts....I should probably stop.....didn't mean to do it!