Are all situations in which you may think "she's busy and probably wants to get her work done" or anything along these lines completely AFC and beta?

If i'm in spanish lab and i'm sitting next to a HB...she's there to get her shit done so i usually see that as why i don't open. In my book it's being considerate, but it makes me miss out on girls.

Hmm, good question. If she is talking on a cellphone. It's just plain rude to interrupt someone talking on their cell.

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if she has her tongue down another man's throat, I will usually leave it there.....

In my book being considerate is alpha. Even if it means you potentially miss out on a babe or two.

I just don't equate being an asshole, or thinking with what's between my legs 24/7 as being alpha. Certainly more to the equation that constantly walking around stomping on everybody else, or putting yourself in socially stupid or even dangerous circumstances just to fullfill ones own selfish desires.

This is 5 y.o. territory in my opinion.

I know some are under such a false assumption, and that's their deal not mine.

If you're a real bad boy it shows without you having to draw attention to it all the time like some insecure jerk.

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Just use your better judgment. I approach only when I feel I can improve her situation. E.g. Sitting around talking to her friends, or *gasp* doing nothing at all, she looks like she could use cheering up at work, the list goes on... So green light on those in my opinion.

But things like cell phone, homework... I tend not to approach. Starbuck took a few words right outta my mouth. Again, just put yourself in her shoes, approach if you can really leave her better off than you found her rather than pissed off because she has a math exam in 10 mins and you're asking her about the cologne on your wrist! haha.

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When shes on the phone, studying or doing homework. It's just common sense sometimes.