Check out the update in the original post, if you don't know the context.
Here it is for those who know...

Update...
Called the HB9 back once, about four days later, no answer. Now I get this message on facebook (I don't know when she sent it).

HB: Hey i called u back but sorry about last tuesday i had some mandatory greek 101 thing to go to and 2 midterms wednesday =[ anddd about the party on the 26th i realized im going to be in SB for halloween but is anything fun going on next week!?!


What you think--Call her? or message her back? I had no screen on my phone, so for all I know she did call. Or is it just not worth it--I don't like to get dicked around so should I just say fuck it--?

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Saint Boon

Give her the benefit of the doubt in this case. You don't know if she called or not, AND she's given you an open invitation to invite her out next week. Do it.

If she doesn't answer, should I leave a message? I usually know in these situations, but sorority girls are wierd. I thought I was getting blown off, and all of a sudden she goes out of her way to message me.

I was gonna leave a message saying, "Hey what's up, it's Tom, we're having an 80s party Tuesday, so you should get your best costume together and come up... call me and back and let me what's up when you get this."

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Saint Boon

That's too AFC. Lol, you think sorority girls are weird . . . leave off the "sorority" and you're on target. First of all, you're not leading her with that message. You're suggesting. Then asking. NOT good. Better: Hey, (her name), it's Tom. We're having an 80's party Tuesday. Get your costume and come up. See you there." But, does she even LIKE that kind of party?

I mean, she's definitely a party girl, and I actually don't know what the theme of the party is... so I think I'll say just say, "We're having a themed party so get your best costume and come up." Then she'll have to call me back to find out (plus it will buy me time to figure out the theme). I got another girl comin over now, so it's going to interrupt me calling her... so I'll have to call her late tonight... or you think I should just step out on this girl tonight and make the call?

I also could just AIM her instead, and say I lost my phone.. but that would seem to be moving backward... what you think?

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Saint Boon

Focus on this girl and call the other later. DHV yourself man.

listen man right now she is Testing you. Reconize her shit test, if you see her again don't do or say any AFC shit haha Tripp save your ass. Dhv show that you have something of value to offer her, rather you could test her now. Ask her how did she do on them exams and how poor she probably fail on it, think of some negs and make sure that your party will seem like its the P.O.Y or some shit. Don't fail yet if you see her again and spit enought game you could close her. I think she is using the cat and string theory. Remember your the prize she want to validate for you. Make sure you spot it too. Good luck

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I mean, if I want to see her again, I have to call. She goes to a diff. school in Long Beach.

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Saint Boon

So, you didn't call her last night after you were done with the other girl?

No, the other girl stayed till pretty late and I passed out - hah - I'm gonna call her tonight instead...

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Saint Boon

No problem with that either. It's a DHV for yourself. If she asks why you didn't call last night, tell her you had company. But, I wouldn't just volunteer the info. That would be try hard.