Met this girl HB 8 at a party a month or so ago. Told her I was writing a book. She stalks me down on facebook after and then on AIM. I mess around with some sets online. She tells me she's in a complicated relationship, and I tell her she's just waiting for someone else to come along. Then she gets into this whole spiel about how she is only interested in rest my book blah blah blah, and I tell her not to jump the gun, I never said I was interested in anything else in the first place.

We meet for coffee. Goes great.
Since then she ims me fairly often. I invite her over for a movie, but she's busy and tells me to ask again another time. I say fuck it, I'm over it. She's still with the guy.
Then she ims me again asking for my number, and says we need to hang out again. I give it to her, again don't bother asking for hers, I'm over it at this point.
Ims me again today saying...
HB: I just spent the last two nights at [boyfriend's]
Me: Nice, but I'm kind busy now watching the Sox
HB: You would!
HB: I love sex.
HB: goddamn what's wrong with me I've been so damn horny
HB: sorry TMI
Me: haha, but i don't really need to hear about you and your boyfriend
HB: ah, it wasn't aimed at that.
Me: Then your a nympho
HB: No, but you'd be intrigued if i were
Me: haha, you wish
HB: ooo baby
HB: i gtg watch a movie with my friends...
Me: Ya, so much for you ever watching a movie with me.
HB: You only asked me once!
HB: like randomly
HB: you gotta plan with me, i'm a busy woman
HB: you have my number (actually i lost it when my phone broke), use it.
Signs off.

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Saint Boon

yo man u let her control ur frame, shes playin dominatrix rite there, you shoudlnt hve said the part about watchin a movie wit u cause that she used it against you as she was in control, made u look like a wussy cocky funny type guy, but yo help me out too on my topic thread i need to know wht to say next, cause i cant tell her wht i liek to do i wanna keep it a mystery still.

True... though I really don't know wtf to make of her anyone. Either she's trying to tease me in a LBJF way (I told her I wasn't interested btw), which might be the case, cause she's asked me on several occasions to read her poetry (and one of the poems was basically about cheating on her boyfriend with a different, better guy), or she does want my dick, and is being as overt as she can without telling me... I doubt the latter, but I really don't know. She's a really odd chick...

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Saint Boon

whens the lst time u talked to her though?, i dont noe my situation i just met this chick, but i go onit as hit hard, or go home, but im not sure, wht shoudl i say next to stop that, i neever really notiecd the nightmare sleepin wit me thing fuck i fucked up wit that one

i was just qualifying myself though

She imed tonight, with the sex comments.

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Saint Boon

now push pull man, act like she doesnt deserve it as of yet, i know its hard to do but do it, so u dont seem desperate like u did when u asked her to watch a movie wit u, ite, NOW HELP MEE i just met this chick i dont think its over cause she asked me wht i liek to dooo

I wasn't desperate when I asked her to watch a movie with me... that was like 3 weeks ago... she said she was bored, and I said I was about to watch a movie, she should come watch it with me....

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Saint Boon

Anyone else got an opinion on this situation?

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Saint Boon

She's keeping her options open. Probably plays all kinds of mind games on her boyfriend and keeps him in line by hinting at all the other boys sniffing her up. I'd say play it very cool - cool as in not very interested, not cool as in The Fonz! Let her do ALL the chasing, show only slight interest. You string her along, not the other way.

Good luck.

Oh, and don't invite her to any more movies. If she brings it up, say, "well, if you want to invite me to a movie let me know." Put it all on her.