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Yea man I feel the same but...if you want women just for sex than youll have to face some problems along the way. My advice is to buy some condoms and make sure you know how to put on right. The last thing you want is your condom ripping or falling off.

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Learn from my mistake...If a girl is interested in you and your interested in her, get her number before you get drunk.

Nope, your not being paranoid. You can't be too paranoid about STDs. (Ok, I lied. abstinence isn't the key)

Always carry a few condoms with you at all times, and don't use cheap ones either.
Don't plan to use a condom, USE IT! Then flush it down yourself. You never know what some crazy chicks would do with a used condom, and you don't want to know.
Have a medical check up every few months, it never hearts (for too long).

Sex is the one field you should always play it safe. There are worse things then rejection.

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Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.

I'm wondering if it's possible for a woman to maintain sexual attraction for a guy if she never fucks him.

I've got one girl I get condomless sex from and the rest are all condoms. I'd just as soon be exclusive, sexually, to this one girl, that, for whatever reason, I trust. First time sex isn't very good, usually, and condom sex is pathetic next to naked sex. Her sex is great, but I love the game and thrill of the chase.

If the alpha male just tells a woman he's dating that he doesn't sleep with women and practices abstinance (sp?), can he keep a woman sexually attracted to him long term??? Is it even possible? I mean, if I tell a woman I'm seeing that my sex is ONLY for one girl and it's not her, how would she react? Would she view me as more of a challenge and want me more or wtf would happen?

As for just taking a few dives into bare pussy without a condom and then putting one on long before you bust, DON'T give in to the temptation. If she's really wet, it's very unlikely you'd catch anything. But if you get warts, you're screwed for life. I don't think you ever get over genital warts. Do a search on genital wart pictures and you'll see what I mean. That shit looks REALLY scary and you might not EVER get laid again if you catch that shit.

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Genital warts can bu burned off by acid/freezing and most will eventually go away on their on after a few years. You can HPV also without having warts. IF you are worried about warts there is that gardasil shot for women that doctors can give to men. I my self am worried about herpes but the chances of getting them with a condom are low, from he reading I have done. Also if she is really wet you can still catch anything she has. So in short just wear a condom.

Maximus, no you're not being paranoid. You HAVE to be careful. You never know where's she been before you. Last night at one of the clubs here in my city I was watching this girl that was literally almost being fucked by TWO guys at the same time on the dance floor. For one thing, she was drunk beyond trashed. For another, I really think she was drugged by the guys by the way THEY acted toward her. I saw her taken away, finally, by a friend of hers to supposed safety, BUT that's not always the case. You never know who the girl has been with before and obviously you have no idea what those guys have passed on to her before.

White Rose, lol, I LOVE your post.

Alpha, I can see two different, contradicting viewpoints to your situation. I'm actually wondering about something similar myself. For one thing, it would be a DHV to an EXTENT, because you are preselected by other women, AND you're not just giving yourself up to her without her qualifying herself to you more, BUT in the process of her qualifying herself to you more, you could also be setting her up mentally for a relationship with you.

I think you CAN keep the attraction going for a LITTLE while, not a long while, without actually sticking your dick into her, BUT you DO have to have a LOT of other physical escalation, and basically everything JUST SHORT of actually fucking, for her to MAINTAIN that attraction toward you. If you stop that stuff, in her mind she will start losing the attraction toward you. I mean, you should even go so far as fingering her or even going down on her, if you don't think you'll catch anything, but then again, if you don't think you'll catch anything, why not fuck her?

At the very least, you need to somehow "take care of her", even if you don't put yourself inside her. And, when you DO take care of her, MAKE SURE SHE ENJOYS IT to the point of CRAVING more of you. If you can't maintain THAT level of desire FROM her, then you might be screwed anyway.

Once a girl sees that you fucking KNOW what you are doing sexually, even if you DON'T treat her great outside of the sex, she will have a HARD time letting you go.

If you can blow her mind, without even sliding yourself into her, then your gold in her eyes. At that point, keeping her around just got a LOT easier.

Yes you should be..

Is there anyway to be perfectly safe? Nope. Not unless you're married, she was a virgin and she's faithful.

Good luck on finding that.

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Yep Starbuck, I knew I had a rare one

I'd say you're being paranoid, right now anyway because you're worrying about something in the future thats a lot harder to attain than you think... granted the herp and gono are some serious shit, but are you pulling ass on the reg??? like once a week?? more than 2-3 girls a month?? you pullin these bitches out of the local dive bar or trailer park?? if not then you should worry more about your game, check her axewound out before you slam it and wear a rubber... To me its like you're saying yea I'm gonna become a celeb but fuck I don't wanna deal with the papparazzi... they're gonna be on my shit all the time, it's gonna be a bitch... Cross that bridge when you get there, I'm worrying about what I'm gonna open with or how I'm gonna isolate the target, you're just thinking and worrying about shit way too far ahead of where you are... You're gonna have a lot more to worry about once you get good like clingers, psychos, stalkers, attention whores and drama queens, all kinds of shit you have to deal with that you never expected when you first started... I understand its a valid concern and serious but I think you're worrying about stuff that can be addressed later. But do wrap it up.

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NEVER BE UNSAFE. Its a risky business.

somthing like 40% (not sure exact number but near there) of all Crabs catching is done on your local public toilet seat.

I was out sarging and i k-closed a girl and got tonsilitus. SO yeah the risk is HIGH, never fuck around with safety. Condomless sex is somthing I will only venture into if I find my perfect 10.

But then again you cant let it run your life as a seductionist! I mean you can get std's from oral sex but that doesnt stop me, who wants to wear a condom when getting head?!

So i say be aware, if your pulling an obvious ONS then check before you give head for warts etc. But dont be over paranoid, the chances are slim and if your wearing a rubber properly there chances are very slim you will get anything. Otherwise for the most part if the pussy doesnt look 100% dont touch it.

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