fuck im pissed off AGAIN.

HB9 that I was seeing has gone to uni 200 miles away, kept in touch for a while now not contacting me, I cant be all needy and be the first to contact her. It sounds like she's met a guy as a couple of days ago she was ringin me constantly and arranging for me to go visit her, now theres nothing. Ill contact her either tomorrow or day after and try to get some closure. Yes, I have feelings for her, yes I think about her A LOT and yes, I keep checkin to see if she's logged into myspace.

Add to that Ive got crown court on monday, no job little carreer prospects and Im living with my parents at 25 and in lots of debt.

And the best bit is im too stressed to get work (which will lift me out of my depression) as I dont know if ill be getting sent down or not.

And last nights sarging was appauling

Fuck cunt bollocks - rant over

sympathy please

Mystery once said: alot of guys say man, im a go getter, im a go getter man!, but have you ever thought about being a go giver? what do you have to offer?

first off forget her, all shes gonna go is fuckup up your mind right now. next, its time to become a go giver, start by looking for work , at least look at a few places a day like i dunno try 3 places a day, also ask yourself what do i need to improve that is imediate. such as do you have a gut? do you have bad posture? start with the simple problems and then branch out.

what talents do you possess that you can harness and use to your advantage? such as art/music/languages if you cant think of any then get some type of hobby, start studying a language, perhaps a romantic language such as french,italian,spanish

feed your brain too, read shit, keep up with current events, watch documentarys, animal planet, increase your vocubulary, i often scan through the dictionary and learn a new word or two every now and then.
why the dictionary?
because, women seduce men with looks, men seduce women with words and their use of rhetoric

im 25 also and while i dont live with my parents i have an equally embarrasing problem which is that im just now learning how to drive, but the difference between you and i is that im working on my problem instead of just complaining about it. im sorry if i come off as a cheney here, im just keeping it real. the good news is that everything you have mentioned has a solution.


go and start networking, create new friends, meet new people, try and meet at least like 1 woman a day, create a bigass social circle.

if you need any help or have any questions msg me and ill be more than happy to assist. hang in there an get motivated! you can do it.

good luck

skittlepimp

yo dude. wait tables. its a great way to practice ur routines and make money at the same time. second, if ur down and this chicks on ur mind find something to do with ur self.

A:Get a job waiting tables. your game will improve a hundred fold...the better ur game, the better ur tips, guy or girl.

B: work out, and run a mile afterwards, everyday! not only will it make u healthier and look better, but it will make you a happier person. u'd be suprised how much running a mile can change ur spirits.

C: do something in ur down time. read, play a video game. ive just bought "the mystery method" ebook, "the juggler method" post compilation, "magic bullets" compiled by savoy, and an ebook on cold reading. ill send em all to you if u want em, just pm me.

dont contact her, let her contact u. if she doesnt then fuck her. i know its easier said than done but if she calls you, ull feel good. if you call her and get brushed off ull feel even shittier. loads of bad experience taught me all of this

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dude we've all been in at least one of your situations especially one-itis, and with me the not having a job(i finally got one about a month ago thank god) and living at home fucking sucks. but you gotta take it in stride just like you do with The Game. . .if you fuck up with one girl no worries cuz theres plenty more out there. . .and it should be the same about the job thing....and i definitely agree with rook if you want a good job to practice Game then wait tables the better you get the more money you make........that actually makes me want to pick up a job waiting tables on the side.........


anyways i got off subject......dude just keep your head up......and notice i didnt talk about the HB9.........thats because she dont matter, theres a million other HB9's that would fucking love to have you in their lives......now go out there and give them the privlege(sp) of bein around you




and sorry my posts have been a little confusing lately lol ima have to work on that too lol

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The sky's the limit

one-itis can go fuck right off. i'm right there with you man. ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.


WE WANT THEM, BUT WE DONT WANT TO WANT THEM.


Here's to getting them to want us!

"Life is a tragedy for those who feel, and a comedy for those who think." unknown

Defiantly have all been there on the one- itis, but you need to move one, let go, and let live. This predicament is now not only stopping you from sarging its also affecting your personal and professional life. Dude this happens to everyone. Same exact story just happened to me. HB9 moves away everything is AWESOME when she left, she comes back after 3 weeks for a visit and its like we had never met. Go figure.
As far as a job is concerned, bartending or being a waiter is a great job with good pay and will heighten your social skills as mentioned before. I'm 24, I own 2, three family house, started and DIY business with my dad, and work 50 hours a week at my full time job, plus always find time to sarge. The increased amount of work I have keeps me on point with my life and allows me to spend time where ever it’s needed most. Trust me the busier you are the most fulfilling your life will be.

Good luck man!!
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SARGE ON!

Cheers guys, Ive been chattin to her and although she misses me I feel she's probably pulled some other guy. Fuck it its just the stress im under makes this 100x worse.

I do go to the Gym 3 x a week to keep my sanity, I try to go out a couple of nights a week also, but the guy(s) I go out with are shit for wingin with, they dnt know about PU which makes things harder, like tonight Im meeting an AFC who wants to pull, theres no way he'll help my sarging lol.

Im suprised someone mentioned a bar job cos Im going to try get work in a bar or social enviroment.

Us guys need validation, splitting up or having a girl flake takes away that validation - I think the girl leaving has had a big effect soley because of my current lifestyle and depression. After court on monday I WILL SORT MY LIFE OUT until my trial of course then u might not here from sundayraver for a while (unless they have internet in jail lol)

hey dude

one itis is so fucked man......i know where ya comin from, ya gotta get over that

good luck with court....if one-itis is fucked, how much more fucked are courts, cops and judges. Western countries are fucked, no way would i wanna return to the sterile and anal culture of an affluent society.

Thailand rocks man.......best move i ever made was to turn my back on australia and make a life here in the sun.

GOD BLESS THAI CHICKS........they rock big time

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