I think it is very important to always keep your corral full of women to "ride". This prevents any sort of Oneitis and makes you a much happier PUA in my opinion. Let's say, for example, HBSweetPoon is busy on a night that you are horny and you really need some lovin'. Instead of relying solely on your hand (aka Palmela Handerson or Rosey Palm and her five sisters), if you have some backup girls, you won't have to worry about going so long without some good loving.
This way if a girl disrespects you, you can simply let them go and free them out to "pasture". Sometimes these girls will come back to you with open arms (and legs). Why should you practice this sort of nonchalant attitude? Because it shows that you do not put up with their drama and you are a confident male with many sexual options. Too many guys get caught up in the cycle of clinging too tightly to any one girl and they miss opportunities for girls that are prettier, smarter, more secure, and hornier than their current female conquest(s).
I believe that by having your stable full of girls is healthier than chasing after and/or holding onto any one female. What is with the horse analogy? Think of girls as wild stallions. They are unpredictable to the naked eye, but once you get more experience, you begin to understand them a bit and can train them. The trick is not to hold the reins too tightly though. If you try to force them to conform to your ideal schedule and wishes, you will most likely lose because females will get scared and buck you off. Remember, in order for a successful PUA to attract successful females, he must understand that these beautiful creatures can be tamed but also believe that strong, independent women are often wild. We call these the "closet slut". This is a nympho that appears to be a good girl on the outside. The saying, "a lady on the street, but a freak in the sheets" is a good example of this.
I love women. That is why I have been into the pickup arts for so long. I have had quite a few successes and many failed attempts as well. Michael Jordan, the famous basketball superstar once said, "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." Practice, practice, practice. Oh, and always practice safe sex:
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Thanks for reading.
-Chicoman
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