Hey guys.... I've been reading this post for a while now and been reading books on the subject.... I'm a newby in the game ....but the shyt seems to be getting further than I ever have so i'm trying to master this shyt.....so maybe u guys can help me out with a couple things....I gotta a couple of chicks on deck after last night....I would say I played the alpha male role pretty damn good which is unusual for me.... But yeah....let me get to the nitty griddy.... So I saw this HB 7 in the club last night.....she really couldn't dance...but neither can I ...so we were pretty much even.... so I went over to her....I didn't get any EC by the way...not because she wasn't interested but because she didn't c me....so i walked up to her and kinda touched her on the arm....she damn near hit me...lol...she said she thought i was trying to hold her hand....i was like shyt....u aint gonna beat me up r u? I was juss gonna ask u to dance, but nm....but she was like no.....we can dance...i'm sry....so we're dancin and talkin n shyt....that's all we could do since none of us could dance....we were juss talkin bout lil shyt....my convo skills aint all that either but i was keeping up

anyway....she's a talker...so she was talkin most of the time.....but yeah...we danced and talked for about twenty minutes....in between she even asked me to go to the drinkin fountain with her to get some water..... so then her friend calls and tells her that they bout to head to some after party....she was like we're going to the after party...r u gonna be there? I was like maybe....i dunno yet i gotta c what some of my other homies r doing...she was like ok...well call me if u need directions...i gotta go back to my house right now so my friend can get her shoes... i was like ok....so I got her number.....

So...me and one of my other friends end up leavin the club around 1:30... which was an hour after i talked to this girl... within the hr... i also did another number close on a HB 6....but the chick says she had a bf.... so i don't know if I should even call her although she did seem like she really wanted me to call her...but it got pretty awkward after that....cause it turns out that my friend was makin out with her friend...so after i got her number we ended up walking outside together....it wasn't juss the four of us...i guess she had came with some other dude or something....so yeah...after i got the number i juss wanted to jet...but i couldn't cause my friend was still talkin to this girl.... ya'll think i should still call?

But yeah... back to the subject...that's not the chick i'm really into .... So me and my homie end up going to this party....the party wasn't even crackin when I got there... we were waitin outside with everyone else for like 20 mins before we went inside... but in the mean time I c HB 7 .... I acted like i didn't c her cause she had a dude with her....i was like ****.... but she was like....Hey Rkurly14....she came over to me and started to talk to me for a lil bit....then she introduced this guy she was with...i was like hey man...then she like started talkin to him more...so I juss left, and started gettin at these group of HB 5 that I wasn't even into...my friend was mackin, so i juss wanted to help him out...plus....i didn't want to look like i was devasted about being snuffed... so everyone ends up going into the party....and everyones juss chillin and drinkin....and I c HB 7 over there lookin at me

I smile and nod....and she smiles and says hi...i couldn't hear her but that's what she said....she was still talkin to that dude, so I didn't go over there....I was waitin for peeps to start dancin before i approached her....so yeah...in the mean time I was talkin to HB 8 that was servin the drinks....I had talked to her the night before briefly.....but yeah....the music started and peeps started to dance.... HB 8 was on the dance floor....I finished my drink and went on the dance floor....I wasn't even lookin for her....but I made EC with her and she was like Hey Rkurly14...I was like hey.....so I went over there and we start dancin...she was wit a group of friends but left when she seen me.... so she starts grindin me sick.....I take her to the wall....and she's grindin me sicker....i was like damn...but yeah...so we start talkin while we dancin....and she asks me so....how old r u? I was like 19...she was like...awww...ur a baby....turns out she's 21... So i was like...yeah... i'm a baby.... u wanna be my baby sitter....so she starts laughin n shyt... and we still grindin on the wall....then she was all in my grill n shyt.. I was like ok....so I went in for the kiss...but she was acting like she didn't want it....even though I know she did....cause she kept gettin all close to me n shyt....but yeah....after dancin for about 20 mins...she says she's gonna go upstairs and get another drink...i was like... i'll come to...she was like....they aren't letting guys up stairs...which was true.....but she was like...r u gonna be right here...ima be right back..... I was like ....maybe....she smiles...and walks upstairs..... so I'm walkin on the dance floor... lookin for something else and I c HB 7 dancin with that dude she was with ....she stopped me and was like.....why aren't u dancin? I was like I was dancin...but the real question is why aren't u dancin with me? She smiled, and I start dancin in front of her ...while that other dude was behind her..... she ends up puttin her arms around me and the other dude gets mad and leaves....so we there dancin n shyt...still talkin bout little shyt... But it was hella hot in there and too many peeps so we end up going outside....I was like ...lets go for a walk.... she was like .....where we going....I was like...juss a walk...then she..was like...it's chill right here...so we ended up stayin there and talking.....she was doing most of the talkin i was juss listenin n shyt...but yeah...

She ends up talkin bout her last three relationships and how bad they were n shyt and it turns out that she juss wants to have fun.....and i said...koo...im fine with that....then she ends up tellin me that she's always had a lot of guy friends....juss friends ....which I kinda believe...cause she was hella straight forward and she said that she was seeing some other dude from time to time....but not doing anything with...then I was like...well... I'm tellin u right now....I aint lookin for juss a friend, and she said, I wasn't talkin bout u....and I was like...so whose that dude u were with(dude came to try to cock block like twice while I was talking to her)...she was like...juss a friend with benefits...but he's the only one.... so her friend calls her on the phone... and she has to go......and she was like what r u doing? r u stayin here or do u wanna come....I was like...well i gotta c what my homie is doing but yeah...we can chill....she was like...well I was talkin bout juss walkin with us...i was like...O....let me take a piss first then I'll catch u in there....i didn't c her after that....

So my question to u guys..... how do I u guys suggest I go about handlin this....I wanna get access to those benefits...what should I do...and I'm gonna c HB8 in two weeks at some club too...what should I do there?

Let me know what ya'll think

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hm, you did do alot of mistakes, but got hella lucky and what you moslty did was good and i guess that other guy must be a AMOG. well, i dont know much about PU's since i barely started and dont wanna lead you in the wrong path, but this is what i have to say. you got talking and a little bit of kino down, but you BARELY SOI her and she did say "he's the only one" as in you got a chance, so take it . oh, and i want to compliment you on your come back to the baby part, hella funny im going to remeber that.

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