ok here's the situation:

I was gaming a schoolmate and when I was sure that she was attracted to me I told her that I had feelings for her etc. She told me that she had a boyfriend and then I blew it. Instead of saying "great youll have sth to play with when im not around" I said"So? I didnt tell you because I want you to be my girlfriend or sth. I told you cause I just wanted you to know". So what to do from now on to get her? How can make her realise must dump the other guy and choose me?(or theres nothing to do about it?) Note that I dont know who the other guy is so i cant use any BF destroyers that require the other guys presence.

1) this is where you blew it out of the water
2) read the material man (The Game/Magic Points/MM) and you'll know exactly where you went wrong.
3) this is a prime example of One-Itis. GFTOW (go fuck ten other women) You have to show a higher value than her or she's not going to want or desire you.


After a set or encounter, you can go back and reflect on what you did and said and see where along the lines of the process you went wrong. Whether it was in A1 or C3.


The object is, to have her win YOU over, not you win her over. Once you learn that, you'll be set. She should just be another person with a ticket waiting for your ride. If she doesn't want to get on, then the next person in line probably will.

dude I ve read the material I m really good at it.I open and close HB8's and 9's sets all time. Its just that when it come to girls i know for a while i dont stick exactly to the plan

Anyway I now realised what i did wrong

If you read the material, then you would have realized NOT to tell her you have feelings for her. As long as you learned from the experience, something good came from it.

I'm not going to repeat what every one else has already said.
the closest thing i have to relate to this is, two weeks ago i was at a house party where i used to live and it was a great night 3 kiss close and 1 f close
all the girls knew about the other ones i was closing, my TARGET out of the four, i kissed closed second and started receiving some last minute resistance. something along the lines of i cant keep doing this becuase there is this other guy and i want to see where that is going first, so you know what i did i split, it pissed me off i went after two more girls f- closed one after all the other potentials had left , then to my amazement i came back down stairs and my target was waiting for me on the porch. she asked why i dissapearred and i told her how it was fucked up that she said there was some other guy, how it was a slap in the face to me, and how she wants to put me on the back burner because im not good enough, of course i said this all in cocky funny way, and she immediately started qualifying herself to me then we made out she left, and i passed the fuck out.

you do have one-itis, break out of it and she will chase, and if she doesnt then she wasnt really that into you, or the kind of girl you really need to find.

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