Met a girl Saturday night, spent around 3 hours tops in comfort with her. So anyway, we're leaving the bar and headed towards friends zone. We'd already made out a little. Not sure if it was comfort kissing or seduction making out.

Anyway, she asks where we're headed as we're leaving the bar. Things were headed to friendsville. So I whipped into the first parking lot and threw the car in park. She asked what I was doing and I said I just want to kiss you again. Grabbed her face and made out with her for a few minutes.

After that, I looked at her and said "Ok, I'm taking you back to my hotel room, but we NOT having sex. I just want to hold you in my arms all night." I'm not asking for permission, I'm telling her.

As we're pulling into the parking lot of the hotel room, she brings up the point that it's rare for a man to draw the line. Not sure exactly what she said or how she said it, but something to that effect. Anyway, I go on to explain, true story, that "I've been fucked and dumped by so many women, it's unreal. I'm not interested in a one night lay. I'm actually interested in finding a new girlfriend. But what happens is, women have sex with me and then their too embarassed to talk to me again."

Basically, in the past, I've fucked up and gotten a lot of buyers remorse. Sex without enough comfort. But anyway, the next morning, I drive her home, exchange phone numbers and I head home the next day. So I sent an e-mail the following day, said I was too busy to call right now, but I'll call later. She e-mailed back right away. Then, I called her 4 nights later, she picked up. I go into a story about how I cried over something within the first 4 minutes of the phone call to show her I'm human and not embarassed to be emotional. I guess it worked. We talked for 30 minutes. She's e-mailed me twice today and she wants to drive 300 miles to see me.

I guess my question is, can you "CLOSE" a woman on buyer's remorse by covering the objection in advance?

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Alphagame