Listen, I don't lie and I don't cheat. I have NEVER told this woman that she was my one and only. I don't want to flaunt. The last thing I want to do is tell her or show her that I am with other women. I don't ask her where she was or who she was with on a certain night, but if she asks me, I'm gonna try to avoid the question. If she persists, I WILL tell her the truth. I can't stand lying. If there's one thing I despise in life, it's lying. Ironically, if I commit to her she WILL cheat on me and lie about it in a heartbeat...all women will.

That said, I don't think I'm "stringing" her along if I'm honest with her. I just don't want her to ask those questions.

I guess what we're saying, at least most of us, is that PUA's can't have girlfriends. Even if they're honest about non-commitment. All that the PUA's can have are a series of one night lays.

Truth is, I absolutely love this girl to death. But experience tells me, if I see her every day for a week, I won't be NEARLY as drawn to her as I am now. I think it works the same way for women too. As humans, we only want what we can't have. That's what the entire step of qualification is all about, isn't it?

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steady on! I dont agree with cheating mind, thats why i only 'see' girls for now.

Bro, do what you feel.

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hey dude.. meth has a good point.. you also seem to have the mentality that every woman is a lying cheating whore and can't be trusted. In my opinion that could be what's causing it to happen is you're creating a self fulfilling prophecy. Just take a leap and trust her if you love her to death. right now there isn't much commitment but remember that
YOUR ATTITUDE DETERMINES YOU'RE ALTITUDE

you can only go as far as the mentality you have.

I was in your position (not exactly, but similar) a few months ago, I followed my heart and I couldn't be happier with my life. Sure, I miss her, but was it worth it? Absolutely.

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++++you also seem to have the mentality that every woman is a lying cheating whore and can't be trusted.++++

Do the math. I've had sex with roughly 30 women in my life. How many of those 30 have I had sex with more than 10 times? FIVE. That's it. The rest either wouldn't see me again or, with a very small percentage, I wouldn't see them again. I'd guess 80% of them wouldn't see me again, even though I pursued.

Why?

Simple. They were cheating on their boyfriends. No other answer makes sense, does it?

http://www.dallaspua.com/articles/the_t ... _women.htm

Since I've developed my skills, I've seen it first hand. Women who'll have me for a night but won't call me or accept my calls later? I had a married woman hitting on me Saturday night and it wasn't my imagination. It's actually very simple: They can't control their emotions. They're illogical. They use less logic in their love life decisions than a chicken has in it's entire brain. I KNOW this. I'm the same friggin' guy who couldn't get a date 90 days ago. Same income. Same car. Same body. Same clothes. Only difference is my skill set. Over the last 8 days, I've slept with 3 women and made out with another. It's got nothing to do with their logical decisions. It's 100% pure emotion and instinct.

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Girls are generally that way, the decision making part of their brain doesn't develop fully for many years after a man is already completely developed in his frontal lobe.

Yeah, I empathize with you man. But one thing to keep in mind is some of these girls may have had buyers remorse, or felt like they were sluts to go to bed with you on the first night. Usually a girl deals with this response by RUNNING AWAY. It doesn't mean she necessarily has a boyfriend, she's just scared.

And of course, you're going for club girls. Which usually means they're full of alcohol, which is them asking for trouble in any case.

Peace out,

Pyro

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that may be the case but many girls who go to clubs are looking for fun just like you and they don't want it to go farther.. let me put it this way.. i've never met a quality girl at a bar or club in my entire life that i've sarged. whether i closed them or not there wasn't a single quality girl.

try doing it in a sober environment. through work or through friends. or just stick with this girl as it sounds like you really do like her but are afraid she'll break your heart. i don't know how long you've been seeing her but the simple question initially you wanted to know was what to do and the answer is simple. Balls up and either keep her or balls up and drop her because you shouldn't lead her on

If you want to sarge chicks and have a committed relationship with a gf you need to date a bi-sexual chick that will game chicks with you. I wish I'd discovered PUA when I was dating one of my ex's, we used to check chicks out together and had a couple of threesomes, but were totally committed within our relationship. If you want the best of both worlds this might be a good option. But remember that all of your "skills" that you've acquired can work WITHIN a relationship, people do learn these skills so that they can be better boyfriends or girlfriends, by keeping the relationship fresh and exciting.

A master PUA can f-close 5/5. So we can put his mastery to an objective scale.

Don't feel guilty. You're not feeling guilty about what your doing, only that she's feeling bad because of you. She has no one to blame but herself. Don't let that female victimization bullshit get to you. It's not like she's handcuffed to you. She should suck it up and deal with it or leave you. If she does leaves you, would you care? It doesn't seem like that would bother you. You have the skills to replace her.

Be the heartbreaker. Nevermind, you already are. You rock.

Well, we're broken up. She wanted exclusivity and I wouldn't bend. It is killing me. I cried my eyes out and it'll be days before I get completely over this. I've only been dating her for 90 days, but it's the first love I've felt in over a decade. I'm a fuckin' wreck right now.

A life of shallow, meaningless one-night stands??? It's either that or enter a committed relationship as an alpha male, have your balls slowly removed with a guilt saw, become a beta male for some woman and then she'll go fuck alpha males behind your back. Given the options, I think I'd rather be the alpha male.

I probably should just lie to her. Tell her she's my one and only and then cheat on her. That's what they do to us. As soon as the right guy comes along and says and does exactly the right thing, she's fucking him with no remorse.

As men in today's society, those really are the only choices we have in life, aren't they?

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I'm beginning to think so, myself, Alpha. I'm sorry...really sorry...

Peace out,

James

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there's a lot of good girls out there that will never cheat on you if you are good to them and are comfortable in your own skin, just avoid girls you had a one night stand with for possible relationship targets

good luck dude. it sounds like you've made your decision. She does sound like a keeper so I hope you enjoy your life as a PUA instead of having a meaningful relationship