Just wondering after you've completed the attraction phase and in comfort building when you are moving with your target is it normal for the guy to have to grab the girls hand? The last recent sarges with me the girl hasnt really initiated kino and Ive had to grab their hands - Id prefer if the girls showed a little more intrest because it's like if I dont go for the grab Ill lose them. Once I've grabbed their hand they are comfortable. Like last night this happened constantly but I still stayed at the girls hotel!

Just wondering if this is normal or should the girl be initiating kino with me ( after attraction )

It really all depends on the process you take and how you play it. Generally hand grabbing is a sink or swim type of action (at least here in SoCal).

A good technique I use is I ask if they're ticklish and this gives you a good way to neg no matter the answer. the second part goes like this

BOB: here, hold out your arm?
HB: why?
BOB: because i said so, trust me, you'll like this (establishing dominance, trust, and kino all at once)
HB: ok (sticks arm out)

... now you've probably seen girls do it to each other a lot.. they'll run their fingers up and down each others arms. the trick is to use your four fingers (minus the thumb and do it in a figure out motion in the area around the crook of the elbow and out a couple inches.. if a girl is ticklish she'll love it. If she isn't then you can neg her again for not being normal and do the same to her hand. after that you can lead her out of the club if she doesn't respond back with kino. Most girls have things like to try in order to elicit a response from guys so they'll usually pull it at this point.

If you don't know how to do this already I'd suggest practicing on a friend first to perfect it. you can also do the same to the palm of a girl's hand. It's a little less direct but adds playfulness instead of leading. Let me know if this works for you out in the UK

Go for it anyway Sundayraver.

If she's attracted,she'll allow the touch.Trust me.

You've got this bro.Go for the kill.