Recently I’ve been talking to my ex girlfriend for a few months after taking a break for a year. I have been best friends with her since we were in middle school (we are 22 now). We dated for about 3 years but decided to take a break last year because we were fighting all the time. I am still in love with her but things have happened between us and we have grown apart. Lately we have been talking about seeing each other more and maybe trying getting back to when we were good.

When we dated she always talked about getting breast implants and I was always vocal about saying that she doesn’t need them and is perfect the way she is. She just told me that she is getting implants in a few weeks. I have always hated the idea of implants I don’t think they look good and I think everyone is self-conscious and that’s just life. She says it will help her confidence and all I can do is support her right now.

But my problem is that I am afraid she will change. She is very self-conscious and says she hates attention. But at partys she loves talking to guys that hit on her and is basically a closet attention whore. She is very easily persuaded by a few of her friends and will often act different because of something someone said to her. I am afraid that she will change into a different person because of this. I am scared that I will lose feelings for her because she will not be the girl that I love anymore. Also I have never seen or felt implants in person and I am worried that I will no longer be attracted to her after she gets them.


I guess I am wondering has anyone dated a girl who has gotten implants? Do they act differently? Has it changed the way you look at them? How much differently do they look and feel? Any advise would help…

Maybe it is something she truly dis-likes about herself? I was never a big fan of plastic surgery and stuff like that, but my dear lover opened my eyes a bit. She said if someone hates something about themselves, shouldn't they be able to change it?

There are many things that we have changed in our lives; aspects of our selves: personality traits, hobbies, habits.

but then the other side of me says: well, no one likes wrinkles, but that's life, deal with it.

I guess it is about the weight of the action. If it isn't just for appearance, then I end up being okay with it (for example braces).

Of course she will change...that is why she is doing it.

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