I have been seeing an HB8/9 every day this week (work commitments). Everyday I have seen her I have increased the kino. Now whenever I walk past her I will almost always squeeze either her bum or her waist depending on where we are. I also grab her round the waist from behind sometimes reaching round to touch her stomach, sometimes just manouervering her around. Also been stroking her arm and plenty of play fighting (pushing, elbowing, etc). She never complains at any of this and has always let me escalate kino. My questions are as follows:

(i) Is there another step up in kino without actually closing in some way? (Closing is tricky just now because of work)
(ii) Is there a level of kino you should stop at even if she is comfortable (i.e. do you break the sexual tension?)
(iii) Is pinching bums a 'foux pas' in this modern world of ours? Lol.

I'd like your thoughts, my kino is really becoming a strong part of my game and I want to improve it as much as possible.

I would say

(i) well sounds like you been escalating the kino (reaching round to touch her stomach, stroking her arm and plenty of play fighting (pushing, elbowing, etc). But once you escalte the kino to a women's risky areas (inner thighs etc) you eventually have to close, so get her out somewhere thats not at work so you can do so.
(ii) No never
(iii) Depends on the location and the girl. Some girls love it anywhere, Some like it but not in a public place, Some don't like it at all cause they are insecure about their ass. So feel her out (no pun intended)

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If this is happening at work, I would definately back off. If you want to kino and flirt with her, take it out of the workplace... The last thing you need is to get fired due to sarging or flirting.

She could just be playing along because she is uncomfortable. It happens all the time in the workplace, especially if you are higher on the job hierarchy than you are. "Bum-pinching", as you so adequetely put it, is definately off limits in the work place, but if it is at a bar or something and she seems cool with it, go for it.

Next step- tell her to come out with a drink with you over the weekend. You set the time and place. Keep us informed.

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How far is too far,,, HOw far ARE YOU WILLING TO DO DOWN ??

You should ask yourself that question.


Because everyone have a different comfort level, Like for me I would kiss the girls on the cheek to say hi, because I am comfort enough to do it. And becuse of that , it is like natural for me to do it , and girls wont fell uncomfortable.

so... what is ur comfort level ?? What are you willling to do ?




Magic J

furhtest i ever pushed it was the
do you prefer been nibbled on the ear or kissed on ur neck
whichever they answer you say i cant believe you prefer that to this,

did this surrounded by amogs on a girl i had spoken to for about 10 minutes shes older and a mum,
later on she told me she melted wheni did that. never followed it up thou i left she comes and says hi everytime she sees me.

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Kino has no actual boundaries. Sexual Harassment, however, is to be avoided at all costs. If she expresses any sort of displeasure in your continued touching of her, you should stop immediately. That is as far as you push it. You do not want to be harassing her, and you do not want to be molesting her. You want to be establishing and building a physical connection bolstered by your social connection. Keep that in mind.

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Kino is supposed to be carried out as a very subtle, subliminal escalation of psychical contact. Anything other than that is too far, not saying that it will won't work if your openly touching her. Your just supposed to do it as its a natural thing during the interaction, not groping or feeling. If you have half a brain, you should be able to personally distinguish how much physical contact makes her feel comfortable or uncomfortable and how much physical contact makes you a friendly, outgoing guy vs. how much makes you that creepy touchy guy.

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Ask her out already!!!
Take it to the next level somewhere outside of work.

I agree with C-Dub

1.) Take it up to the normal level you are used to in the office with her and ask her a JOKING flirting question that you know because of your tone and the question that she will answer flirtingly back even if only nicely any question like that will do but for example something as simple as "you make me so mad sometimes (pause) because i know what you say and think about me behind my back (pause) its obvious you find me irresistable and totally attractive (smile/wink) (dont let her answer yet) but you know what thats cool im kinda flattered that you think that way about me, its nice to know that you have good taste and standards (smile) right?" will work WHILE kino'ing at a NORMAL level aka a hug/ or arm around her... ect AFTER she answers a flatterning flirting response back act like u never said anything and that was the first words out of her mouth. "(shocked) ok show is over, geez! (LAUGH so she KNOWS to laugh then push her away immediately.. mind the fact that you are just gonna nudge her not throw her accross the room!)(make EC and motion to her with 1 finger to come back to you) haha get back here woman! geez your fiesty i have to watch you sometimes." then LIGHTEN the kino and procede to BUILD A TIME BRIDGE! DONT ASK HER, TELL HER! say something like "hey, listen close because im only giving you 1 shot at this ok? (she says ok with a smile because its funny/cocky) ok, me and a friend are going to (the name of the place you wanna go) on (the day you want to go is NOT that day and NOT the next day but any day after... the 2 day rule for TB) and you should come with us, do you know where it is AT? (dont let her SAY ANYTHING before you get the where its AT part out) (she will say yes = she is down and ready for bar kino and a kiss close at the bar) (if she says IM BUSY or I CANT = you need to INSTANTLY, dont hesitate! INSTANTLY answer her no with something like "well im sorry but your going! because frankly i cant STAND my friend, im the leader of our social circle and he always ends up bugging me to death. Seriously there will be a few people there it will be fun, get off your lazy ass and stop making excuses and actually come have 1 night in your life of wreckless unbridaled fun and adventure! I kinda want you to be my stop watch, when you get bored or i get bored we just give each other the NOD and that way my friend doesnt think im bailing on him. what time do you wanna meet up? i can get you from your place or meet you somewhere in between its up to you, which do you prefer?")

2.) DO THIS ASAP you wanna keep kino OUT of the workplace so hurry and BOUNCE this chick to a bar

3.) OTHER than WORK KINO! kino is only limited by how far SHE is comfortable with. if you can finger then finger , if you can fuck then fuck, if you can kiss then kiss, if you can hold hands then hold hands.. but DONT forget to make HER CHASE YOU! dont JUMP threw ALL her hoops you make HOOPS of your own before you consider jumping hers.

4.) Cocky/Funny

5.) Good luck player


--The Q

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I think the better quote will be from "Boondocks Saint"

"The question is not how far. The question is, do you possess the constitution, the depth of faith, to go as far as is needed?"

What i wrote was VERY LONG and lengthy but read it and you will get the general idea.. Good luck Player!

The_Q


btw Boondock Saints has to be a classic

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