| the previous poster is right, u hav to convey a sense that u are having more fun than anyone else there, and don't really give a shit. i went out last saturday nite and had my most successful sarge mission to date. not only a lota fun, but 5 #closes. Spoken to all but one since, and that one sms'd me, so it's lookin hopeful.
I totally change when in that environment. Ya gotta hav a mindset like u just won lotto. I just walk around opening everyone, hotties, fuglies, guys. If i see a guy with a cool style (actually any style) i just tell the dude, chat with him, move on. I take my digi camera and use it as a state accelerator, after opening a set that looks OK, i soon get my target to take a pic of me and my wing, the get my wing to take a pic of me and my target, and my wings target and him......and the chics, just take heapsa pics. the chics luv lookin at them, do some C/F, don't show her, telling how bad she looks. when she sees the pic, point out how cool YOU look, and how lucky she is to hav met the coolest guy in the nite club.
stuff like thumb wrestling and rock/paper/scissors work well also. I'm not a great dancer but when a beat comes on i like i basically leave the world behind and dance (here in BKK people just dance whereevr they are), if she joins with u thats a DLV, but even then, don't pay hur too much attention, convey the feeling ur there for yr own fun primarily. Use the dance time to assess the sarge and figure on the next stage.
Whatever u do, don't stay there too long, stay long enough to get reasonable rapport, don't end up hanging around with no game to run, thats a huge DLV (unless there is good kino or good connection, or u think it will be a take away. Personally i like the number close, if i get 4-5 numbers thats a busy week of gaming ahead of me, much better than a ONS in my opinion). My Mo is to run game, get a #close then say u and yr wing gotta go look for a freind. Once again, u should be opening up other sets around you, not with the intention to game them, but to convey that ur a cool guy who can talk to anyone. I always do this and the target invariably asks: 'do u know him/her/them'. This is very important cuz if u get a #close and the target sees u talking to others, it should be clear to hur that it's just yr nature.
Last saturday nite was quite a breakthrough 4me, i've always been a bit slow with getting the #close. i was with a new wing (who i met thru this forum), who was pretty confident #closing, so i thought 'fuck man', if he can do it so can i. My experience is that u can learn a shit load from having a wing. I was blown away by the fact that not one chic balked at giving me hur # (i should point out that my looks are probably average at best, tho i do hav a particular grunge-kinda style. ......and my opinion is that a shit style is better than no style. I think it's important to cultivate some kinda style). Next time i gotta take a small note pad in order to get down some details, when ur opening in the range of 10+ sets and #closing, it's difficult to recall who is who, especially if ya drink like i do (tho i never drink too much).
So if i were asked wot the most important thing is, i would say u need hi levels of energy (of course i'm assuming that the place is rocking anyway, hard to do this if every other fucker is moping about like its an AFC convention). Plus u need a good repatoire of stuff, such as thumb wrestling, if u know any magic this is perfect for club sarging (unfortunatley i don't yet). Much of wot i've posted here depends on yr character of course, the few people i wing with are more subdued by nature........but having said that i am as well, it's just that i came to see that if i wanted to master club sarging, i had to change a bit, so it is possible. I should also mention that I'm 40, so there should be no excuse for those that are younger.
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