I love BJS as foreplay its just a part of the whole thing, but something I can say is I never go down, why? Bitch does'nt respect your ass after you dooo Wooooff

SF

I beg to differ.
If you are good at going down, the woman will never want to let you go. If it makes her feel excellent then why would she disrespect you for it? I think it generates respect if anything.

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Trust me women want head just as bad as men. If you drop on them they will love you for it. In fact I used to walk up to girls and ask if i could take them home and give them head. It was a numbers game but you'd be surprised how often that worked.

i totally disagree with this statement.
i agree with what gia said about doing it right that they love it, and this love you for it.

my feeling is, that it resignates power for the man. many will diagree with me, but i feel more empowered while doing it. This is bacuase i know i am in total control of what is happening, her feelings of pleasure and her ecstacy.
i dictate everything that is currently happening and can choose how it goes down. she begs me for more and i can choose what i want to do and how i want to proceed. i have the power to make her cum....

its an empowering feeling....

Ming is correct.

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- Giacomo
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As long as YOU control the situation, she will find it arousing and see you as the power. If you tell her what is going to happen instead of asking or whatever, you maintain control and girls (at least those that I have been with) love being over powered... They find that a huge turn on.

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-Love, Charity, and Esteem-

Depends on the girl for me, there are a few girls I would never ever say no to a BJ offer while others sex cannot be beat while the oral just leaves me frustrated.

But like the road to Carnegie hall it all just takes practice, practice, practice.