Ok so If you are not a "couple" but you are dating and have been for about 3 weeks now....what do you do for valentines day? I feel like I should do somthing?

Do whatever you feel is right, but do something. As long as it shows thoughtfulness then you'll be OK. I've made the mistake in the past of doing nothing on valentine's day for a girl I was with, bad bad move.

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ye so now i just have to think of somthing fun to do....im broke and in college lol so im thinkin just take a movie over to her house, make some food or somthing and spend the night in .

It's not so much about money or gifts IMO. She just wants to know you were thinking about her and did something that required a bit of effort and thoughtfulness that conveys you appreciate her. Cooking her dinner would be good, be creative

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When it comes to girls I've been dating as a potential love interest, what I do is a direct reflection of what I think the relationship means to me. For those I'm just dating the most they get is a card. If they mean more to me I do more, but I try to slightly under-do the occasion since I don't want them to use the occasion to advance the relationship beyond where I want it to go. This is one night I deliberately break "The Rules."

I don't go out on Valentines day for any reason, since it's the busiest night of the year for restaurants. I try not to make any dates on that night either unless I'm seeing someone really special. Actually, I haven't had a date on Valentines since my fiance and I called it quits.

For the women I have relationships with (Mom, sisters, ladies at work, etc.) I generally find some special way to mark the occasion, but I reject the notion it's a holiday men have to do something special for women on. It should be a two-way street.

BTW this isn't an attitude I've had since I started learning pickup. Valentines Day has always been a bad memory for me as anyone who read my post in the Introduce Yourself section knows. It marks a really sad occasion for me so it's hard for me to be really upbeat at this time of year.

If you're looking for special ideas I have tons.

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I've been dating a girl for about a month so I've been wondering about this as well. We'll probably end up making it official before Valentine's but regardless this is what she's getting from me:



We'll probably go out and do something too, I'm still figuring that shit out.

See Im not sure what Im going to do yet....I was thinking write her a letter or somthing personal....but Im not sure If that is going over board with a girl Im still geting to know? I dont want to do the same old shit because of course I want her to be blown away by what I do....dinner, a rose, and a movie are boring and predictable you know?

find that cliche'd area where you can see the stars and the lights of the city from above.

then fuck her on your cars hood.

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Stumbled across this video, though mostly everyone's replys have the same general idea:

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea ... D=51834621

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