Hello fellow friends
Today i learnt a massive lesson,
that is: Providing you place your control. Have integrity, a solid state and yet at the same time have a good code of conduct to yourself and others you will always stay in control. And come out with what you want if you find yourself in a potentially thin ice situation. - more importantly to the last comment- thinking about every possible out come of what your about to say.
It makes you look better and you can even come out of the possible sticky situation even better. When the shit hits the fan the fan will break, if you follow this i found out.
The background to this:
I like this girl and she likes me...
i was out last night and her mates came out and this girl that i liek was away home and (nothing major is happening between us yet, im not rushing, but we are going out on wednesday so its not stalling, we both know we like each other...) anyway as i said her mates were out with me and my mates and her best friend was all over me, so i didnt persue it but went with it... The result.. i kissed her back in my room, i didnt go any further because it could have got bad. So anyway i woke up hungover and the first thing i said to myself... "shitt" ....
i thought about it and pulled a plan together quickly (dont hesitiate)... my course of action was pretty much flawless and either way i was going to come out smelling of roses after riding through shit. I grabbed the situation by the balls, made a decision, and followed through with what i decided swiftly and smoothly, i stayed strong in my frame not ever doubting it. and the end result was as i said, coming out look even better than i went in.
The key is to not hesitate but to also analyse quickly and efficiently to come up with the best plan and question it to see how it could turn out if x happens. then when you come up with a good one, make the decision quickly, stick by it and carry it out quickly...
just like in life with anything really. the keys to success.
Anyway
a very good day for me
i did feel bad but its over and in the past now, onwards and upwards!
Peace
~sierra~
CHAT