Update.

As I said 1st 'date went pretty well 7/10. Good body language, deliberate kino from me.

Said I'd call her at weekend. Called her Saturday afternoon. She said ''busy I'll call you back''. Which she did 10 minutes later.

Conversation not bad, she talked about being at work etc, built rapport. She will (honest) be out of town until Thur or Fri. I said I'd call her weekend to arrange another meet.

Impetus went her way. I wish I'd said 'busy must go now or something'.
I said I'd call her at weekend (she ruled out earlier, won't be availible).

So I'll keep her waiting and call her late on Sunday afternoon.

THING IS: Next party at same place is a week on Friday (18th Aug).
I'm worried she will say let's meet up there which devalues it as it's not one on one at e.g. a bar.. If so I'm talking to her with lots of other people around and can't chat up other women either as that would piss her off.


Postscript:

Other woman from party who said she'd meet me at dancing- saw her going up escalator in tube/metro station tonight while I was going down.
Took a sec to recognise her, then thought best not to shout out to her as not I was pissed off that she failed to turn up when she said she would.

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Post script:

Lady I met at party who I emailed and went on a date with (see previous post). She called Friday morning about this months party that day.
We both went. Problem was as I feared. Only spoke to her for 5 minutes. She asked if her hair was frizzy, I said no and ran my hand through it. I referred to the dancing in next room. I wasn't asking her to dance and said I'll go to that room next door to watch it (not dance). So I left her at that (deliberately finishing conversation before her) , she seemed ok.
It was in a very crowded kitchen.

Later really crowded in garden. Too much crowd between me at door and her in middle of garden. I didn't want to look a fool. Didn't speak to her again.

I do ok speaking to people normally. Hot Chinese chick comes up to me:
''High gorgeous, you want to come to my 30th birthday party next Sunday''.

Hopefully lady I went on date with sees me with this girl and her friends.
Get invite. In a fancy restaurant/bar downtown. Ask if I can bring along Chinese girl I know. She says bring a guy. Ok.
She then give out party invitations to lots of other guys.

Well, it's an opportunity anyway. Might aswell go along.

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Been a swinger for 5 years and now going to more normal parties. Read Tony Clink and Neil Strauss's books. Find that they are useful and would like to go further than just chatting ladies up and getting their email addresses.