The objective of this topic is to write in it all the test that you had in dates and which was your answer, in this way everyone will benefit from the experience of all of us and will know how to react when this situation appear.



Ice

Well when i was out with my previous gf, on one of the first dates we ended up seeing some of her friends....later one of them was hitting on me , i knew this was just a test set up to check if i was into her(previous gf) I nailed it i totally ignored her and the best thing is since then she (the girl pretendimng to be interested) became interested for real since i was some sort of a challenge!

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Dont take any shit behavior from girlfriends, they will get used to treat you poorly, especially if they are hot.
Once happened to me before knowing the existence of the PUA world, that 1 girlfriend used to call me names and treating me poorly. After some time I call on her, but not in a serious way, so she thought that I was joking.
The day before ending with her for her 2nd class behavior towards me, she told me she needs someone who get mad if she starts with her shit, someone who gets angry, not someone "nice" like I used to be...
Really guys, never let girls start treating you poorly, if you take some, then all will be over for you. Show your anger, thats good.

True never let a girl take you for granted and bring you down, they want to see you have some self respect aka balls.
On the flip side of that if i was out of line ill apologise because im a man and can admit my faults but never grovel....ever!Shows weakness and I'm not and neither shoudl you be!

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I was chasing this girl for a very long time and when she finally met some other dude and dumped me for good she said I was excessively nice and let her get away with anything. damm...

a few days ago a girl I am seeing set a trap. she made her two truly hot cousins hit on me while at a party (she was upstairs grooming herself forever). I did kinda well, cocky funny and cool but not sexual or threatening. I thought I was a champ. But the ONE mistake I made which costed me a LOT to recover (kinda) from was that I asked one of the hot cousins to be a model for the company I work with. so the girl I am seeing said something like "you really think she is hot uh?, so you must really like her uh?, you are a hypocrit, I thought you liked me..."

damm. I hate when girls do these tests....

just a thought: in these tests where the girl has her friend pretend to be interested and hit on you. lets say you make a small mistake like dorian says he did. what if instead of back peddling and making excuses for why you are innocent and wouldnt cheat on her with her friend you play along in an arrogant mocking fassion.

if she says: you realy think my friend is hot! you like her! i thought you were interested in me! you lying bastard!

you respond: haha youre right! i am just here to see her! i thought by pretending to be interested in you i could get closer to your hot friend.

(of course you have to make sure you are doing this in a light funny tone so she doesnt doesnt think you are getting mad or that you are being seroius.)

maybe by doing this you can discredit her test and make her question her self while at the same time being funny and showing your higher value because not only did you pass her test but you make a mockery of it.

i havent field tested this yet, but it looks good on paper....or on monitor as it were.

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