I have a question for all you guys....

What is the BEST thing to do when you fall into the friend zone?

I know the correct answer to this question but wanted to see if anyone is thinking along the same lines as me...

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Honestly?... it totally depends, Depends how far i am in the Friend zone...hangin out often and shit?

I start to intriduce to her the notion of me dating, get advice from her then guage the response, but more often than not i just fess up, i just say that i cant hang out with her cause I had a crazy nekkid dream about her!! lol, and it made me realise i like her more.

OR

you I would just say to her in mid convo something like "well, she said i was an ok kisser......*look at my friend* .. yeah right! like YOU aint thought about kissing me.."

or i could be waaaaay off base

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What I posted was a question to see what ORIGINAL ideas people had for this situation, not ADVICE for a newbie question. If I may quote myself...
Anyway...What I wanted to suggest is this.

Pass any girl you have gone into the friends zone with onto your buddies, introduce her and let them take a try at her. They will in turn do the same for you, allowing you to meet a broader range of women. In addition to this, it will show the female your not interested in her and allow you to possibly have another chance with her in the future.

/ Edited by: XFMAN

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I like it, check this out

When im working at a gig, doing walk around magic. Its very much like sarging yeah? I gotta go and open up sets.

But instead of opening up this table, that table, asking closed questions like "Hey, wanna see some magic"? - to which they reply, no, feck off!!

I show one person an awsome powerful opener and I only show them on a condition that they need to take me and introduce me to someone else, before i show THEM a trick, i say,

"Ok, im gonna mess with your head, but after it, you need to grab someone, or a crowd for me to show them?, deal?"

That way, i aint opening sets, they are doing it all for me.

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There you go, thats the point of it. You took it to a different area, which is good, but you get the point. You meet and greet enough "friends" and pass them on to your wings, you will get sets opened to you without you even doing anything.

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It sounds like a good enough idea meth, but I don't know about passing them onto my friends. I might pass them onto my wingman but only after I've told him the deal.

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but how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward." - Sylvester Stallone
“You is a fluid concept”— Hitch

Friend, Wingman, same thing in my book. I understand what your saying though. They should have a heads up that your sending the HB onto them. Good idea.

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I would show myself with other women in her presence as much as possible. Increase your value as a mate. Decling plans to just chill with her because you have a date or something. Lead her to believe many women are into you, then she might start to question herself

"Why aren't I Into him?"

You get her thinking along those lines and then you make your joking advances on her she might rethink her previous decisions.


just some thoughts from a noob.

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Thats what I do too. If she got a friend for example, ask her: "Whats your friend's name?", that kills her, and her interest in you grows. Ive done it several times, and it works.

Nice Cross. I can see where that would work well. (Adds to arsenal )

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"Life isn’t about how hard you can hit
but how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward." - Sylvester Stallone
“You is a fluid concept”— Hitch

gotta love the old pretty much ignore her and bring around other HB's and show interest in anything but her almost...pump up the ole buying price 80% of the time it works everytime

but really all valid tactics here! I was in the friends zone with my neighbor for so long I learned a fair amount of tactics....by the time I actually got her tho i was college age and uninterested in her..eh lessons tho:)

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James Bond: No, don't worry, you're not my type.
Vesper Lynd: Smart?
James Bond: Single.