had plans w/ a girl i had been dating.. anyway we kinda got into it friday night... so i talked to her for a min sat.. just see what she was up to and bs...so we were sopposed to go to a party sun.. and i never heard from her sun or mon till about miday.. she says "im sorry ive been so terrible this weekend.. so i respond later that night sorry for what? her:i was rude on friday and i forgot to call u to go to the party yesterday...me: well its cool.. her:im finishing up this movie right now.. do you want me to call you after??
i didnt respond that was last night... i mean i think i should blow her or for a week or so what do yall think?

Say: Sure you can call me, but im gonna punish you for flaking on me
she: how?
you: ill spank you
she: haha
you: for 45 min straight

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ill give it a try.. thanks

Hey man, sorry for the brief response earlier
it's just that i had one girl coming over earlier
Here is the reasoning behind it:

She blows you off

You have two options:

You either kiss her ass, and stand anything that she does

or

You catch her on her bullshit, in any way that you like it


I'd use the 2nd one, catching her on her bullshit is ideal, now let's keep going

You catch her on her bs, but how?

Do you scream at her and get angry? Nop, that will only scare her away, and will show her that you do not know how to handle shit tests

Do you say "Just dont do it again..." in a pasive tone? Nop, you catching her on her bs, but at the same time tolerating it, it's like saying "It's ok that you cheat on me, just dont do it again"

Do you say "anything" in an ASSERTIVE TONE OF VOICE? Yesss
Should you add humor to it? Yessss
Why? This is whats called Mixed Signals

Mixed signals are VERY POWERFUL, since it intrigues the other person's desires, by sending mixed signals you really get something going.

Imagine if someone told you

"I like you enough to hang out with you, but I dont mind if you have something else to do"

You would surely be like "I sooo wanna meet up with you"

But you wouldnt admit to it, but would still go

Same with a girl

Of course she wont admit , "Damn I like you, fuck me!"

She will hint she does, she will.

I'll give you an example, following the one earlier

She: Im sorry I didn't make it
You: It's ok, don't do it again (assertive tone) or ill punish you (cocky & funny)
she: haha, really, how?
You: Ill spank you
she: haha
You: 45 min straight
she: haha, freak, well youre a bit hardcore
you: Stop trying to seduce me, and if you ever wanna see me again, call me at this time, for now i gotta go

And there you go

so steps

1. Call her on her bs in an assertive tone

2. Add humor to it, this is part of showing her youre unshakeable

3. Warn her about the consequences of doing any type of bs again in cocky & funny tone

4. Command her to do something else (i.e. meet me at this place, call me at this time)

Hope you get a better idea now

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Yea your 100% right about the mixed signals... chicks love it.. hell i love it... shes a pro at this.. anyway i talked to her for a second.. now shes pulling the shit i been pulling for 2 days.. two text responds.. now shes freezing me out lol this shit is funny