who here would cheat on their girl friend/ wife, or be the 'other guy'.

how many of you already have? do you have any rules for your self?

I'll start.

I've done both.

my rule is just as long as its not a close friends gf.

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LOL! I dont know why but im more attracted to women who are taken...theres just something about it...


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I have never had a true girlfriend that I haven't cheated on, sadly enough. Most girls I am just fooling around with usually aren't the only girl at the time. I usually seem to wind up with girls that have boyfriends and really don't mind being the other guy. There is something about getting someone that is already taken that just motivates to do what I do. Recently however, I have changed for a few reasons. I won't cheat on a girl anymore, because honestly, I've just broken to many hearts and don't wanna be that guy anymore. So before I get with another girl I'll establish to the girl I'm with that I am not looking for a relationship and want to be able to be with other people. It seems like about half of the women I wind up with are okay with this, the other half are not. And in the past I have gotten with a close friends girlfriend and sister. I lost a good friend from one of those, and caught an ass-whooping the other time. So you could say I learned my lesson from both of those.

That is about my only rule as well.

I just let any form of relationship take it's OWN course - It's only cheating if you give off the idea of 'Okay here's how it is, you are my GF' and THEN go for other girls. If you set the frame at the start that implies you will also be seeing other girls and she accepts this - at the START is important - then she has no reason to accuse you of 'cheating'. How are you setting your relationship frames bro?
In terms of girls with BFs for some reason I kind of find it EASIER to go for the ones who are taken - The excitement of challenge and competition I guess. If a girl leaves her BF for me it's all HER decision (I don't TELL her to leave the other guy unless she REALLY shouldn't be with him and doesn't know this). I'll use BF-destroyers and what not, however.

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