Im new to PUA and part of my goal is to have multiple women I can sleep with and eventually find someone to settle down with (very afc I kno!).

So, my question is, since the first girl Ive slept whom Ive told that I am dating others, calls me, texts me, or emails me just about every day...when would I being seeing her too much? So far, since I've met her (3 weeks ago), I've seen her about once a week. But, if it were up to her it would be more like daily and I dont wont to slip into that. At what point will I know Im slipping into a relationship and settling???

3 times a week

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I would aim not to see this girl more then twice p/week. If you like what you have with this girl and nothing more, make sure you dont go over your set limit of visits. This has 2 benefits:
1. Becuase you are not letting her see you as much as she would like, she is going to want you more. Remember the old saying 'girls want what they cant have'.
2. She will realise indirectly that you like her, but you dont need her. Very important as this shows that you are not needy. It also covertly shows you dont want a serious exclusive relationship and your not going to budge on this. This is great as it shows your unshakeable and dominant.

Personally, i am in a fortunate situation with an HB that i have been dating that is similar to yours, however this girl is a non-commital party-gal type. So, i have to constantly re-inforce that i dont do relationships and express that i most certainly dont want one with her whilst still maintaing intimacy (f-buddy). If i dont constantly do this she will think that i will want something more serious (which i dont) and start to withdraw for this reason. I only see her once or twice a p/week and although we get on very well and enjoy each other's company, we both know it is nothing more.
PUAs note: HB 9s and 10s will often be 'non committal' types, they dont need a exclusive relationship so it is important to show this discreety too. Believe it or not there are plenty of HBs who just want a fuk-buddy.
You should try lines such as these occasionally:
- "The 'R' word scares me" R is obviously relationship, to which she may say "but what about your ex" to which you reply "it was a terrible mistake". Or "Why" reply: "My life is too busy to constantly call a girl to tell her she is special and besides im having too much fun (smile)"
- "Im so not the commitment type", "no you will not change me, you too much like my little sister/cousin/neice, your so cute"

You will know when your a slipping into something more serious when you 'must' call her because its Xo'clock for example. Or when "I have to see X because i have not seen her for X days'. Remember, its your life, they work around you.

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Respect,
Excitement.

vary it a bit, but i would not say 3 times a week, if it's that regular she's gonna be thinkin it's somethin it aint. pull back a bit, remember two steps 4ward one step back.

occassionally ignore some of hur calls, keep a bit distant....but at the same time sms hur romantic shit: "good morning, have a cool day", "nighty night", 'da sun is shinin and dis guy is thinkin of yr smile", shit like this is cool.

so while ya always a bit distant when it comes to regularity and seriousness, u should be very caring and romantic....chix dig this shit.

remember, habit will make u or break u. it's imperative that you set up a healthy frame early on in the liasion, otherwise ur lost

wantin to settle down with one chic is not necessarily AFC, wot is totally AFC is settling down with a chic and letting yr sarging skills get rusty. i agree with the idae that dating is a lifetime thing, but that's not say that u still can't have a committed relationship. Whether in an exclusive relationship or not, u should still be surrounding yrself with cool chix, whether u drill them or not is up to u.

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All well put!

Bro, sleep with her as many times a week as you damn well please. Once you have sex with a women it doesn't make a fucking difference how many times a week its going on.