| When I last posted here...
I had met someone that I really cared about and we developed a relationship with me not having to game her...
To make a long story short it came it went, but what I have learned about myself really came to a shock...
I can't say I was an AFC in certain situations, but I learned how to respond and handle certain situations when emotions came to play...
I also learned that I can be very emotional when I'm in a comfort zone/state... I learned that I really didn't love myself much until her and I ended our attempt... Most importantly, my rational was very very distorted because of feelings, and I also learned that no matter what happends, in the end you as an individual have the last and final say as to what you feel like doing and what you should be doing...
So I Custom admit that I learned when I'm attracted to someone I'm very passionate yet very needy and clingy...I couldn't fathom why I acted the way I did and everything that I have learned about the game seem to be nonplus... I mean I couldn't believe it, I was very into her more than myself and that’s when my mood and feelings started to change... Now understand, I didn't attempt to game her, because our interest in music is what lead us to each other and she seemed to be intrigued at the time...I wanna say my natural game and my passion for music enticed her to me quickly...So through my constant analysis and questioning...This is what I believe you should always remind yerself when you meet someone you want to build with...
1. Communication is key-
No matter what, no matter if it is a good thing or bad thing, you can save yerself a lot of trouble if you just relax, take a deep breath, and flow very smooth and easy...I noticed when you find that person you are trying to be with, communication is everything, communication is the foundation of what should be between two people...
If you can't ask her to pass you the ketchup in a simple way, then you are doomed to failure... You need to be clear, confident, and very very thorough. Remember you are only as good as your word, if you can’t talk, you won’t last!
2. Selfless Development-
Now, this is something that I suggest to the fullest. To be selfless is to be unselfish, meaning yer not concerned about yerself because you are already sure about yerself. This is probably the highest form of confidence. Now if you have the ability to communicate then this shouldn’t be a problem. I was amazed how I was able to omit this aura so to speak simply by stepping up my game with self and not really caring what I need or want, because I already know what I need and want…
3. Governor of Feelings-
I take this theory from a device that is used to keep the speed of machinery in uniform. It is in human nature to react to what you feel, it is also in human nature to question what you feel. Unfortunately a lot of people tend to do what they feel rather than what is right! So I made it a habit to do the following when I encounter a feeling that would prompt me to react or question as suppose as to me doing what is right.
So this is what I developed:
Feeling comes in – I acknowledge it, discover it’s origin, and keep it at bay.
Really when you start to develop feelings it is because of what you are sharing with a person weather it be physically, spiritual, emotional, etc… The thing is, what you feel is something you perceived and not anyone else…Meaning what? Meaning if a girl says “You know you have nice colored eyes…” Some may take it as a compliment and “feel” good about the comp, another would “feel” that they have a chance with her by making that comment, or another would “feel” the need to say some stupid shit and get dealt with accordingly… Either way yer thought process has you thinking and from thinking you feel the need to say what you want.
Feelings can work with you or against you, but you need to learn how to control them and make use of them in a uniform fashion! You see when it comes to a man and a woman.
Things are pretty obvious so you know from just human intuition you can respond with no remorse and no fatality. For instance, you are at a movie with yer date, she leans in on you invading yer space, but you know by the look in her eyes, the set up of her lips, and the vibe she is giving off, you could land a nice one on her and know she will give it back in return…I’m pretty sure you all can fathom how a mis-read can lead to disaster. So I’m not gonna bring that up. The point that I’m trying to make here, is, when you know it is a sure thing you can move forward, but for those feelings that have you thinking or questioning. Keep them in check and let them develop through experience with that person and once you know that what it is you are feeling is shared with that person then you can go in for the kill. So just to summarize everything here, feelings should be governed and maintained until you know that the feeling are mutual!
4. The Two Way Street Theory-
Now, this is as simple as it gets, it is a 50/50 thing, you do what she does in its equal. Now I know a lot of us want to top the next big cat, but… You can still be very spontaneous and random and exciting if you just think a lil bit harder and take it easy. You see you want her to be constantly looking for more. This Two Way Street Theory can be applied on so many levels. The majority will have great emphasis on yer ability to communicate…The thing is, she will have to make the first move. You know damn well that a woman wants a man that doesn’t want her. I’m not saying to ignore the girl or not show interest, just make it seem like yer just chilling doing you, having a good time. Woman constantly have all types of indicators popping off, so when a girl knows she is looking good, smelling good, and feeling good, she expects to be told that, shown that, and wants to feel that from a man. Women always play hard to get, so The Two Way Street Theory is rectified just by you playing her game by just being very easy, cool, and chillaxed, and playing hard to get yerself!!!
This is only the beginning of what I have learned about myself, but I’m pretty sure you all can relate. And of course it is safe to say that all of you who have been gaming see how it is linear with the do’s and don’ts of gaming.
You see I’m more into gaming on a relationship level, looking for that one woman that I can wow, but want her to be wowed when I’m not around so when I am, I get that in return…Yet her and I will always be in unison, equal, and on the same page…
I miss you guys!!!
This summer is looking promising, and I believe I have developed enough study to start sarging on a whole different level…
So Chicago Heads, we need to start this movement…
Haha, Custom is back better than ever homies!!!!!!!!!!
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