| This is an article I posted on another PUA forum but I thought you'd all find it equally good.
"Why? Why not?"
That's a quote I picked up from a book we're reading in school, but it applies so perfectly to the game.
Ask yourself those two questions.
When you're walking through the mall and see a beautiful woman walking ahead of you, don't think, don't get nervous or anxious, just go up, spit some game, and you'll walk away happy.
I have friends, AFCs, that always ask me what the trick is. What do I say? There is no trick, no magic pill to getting women. The key to getting women is to simply get up off your ass and go meet people. This applies to the world in general. You will never achieve anything without applying yourself.
"But I'll get rejected"
No, YOU will not get rejected, your game will. And hey, that's part of life, just laugh it off, because that woman that just "rejected you" just missed the opportunity of a lifetime. Because you know that YOU are the coolest person in the world, and she just hopped on the wrong train.
As Silvester Stallone says, "Life isn't about how hard you can hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward"
Quite simply, it's not about how many canned openers you know, how many C and F lines, how many magic tricks; it's about being confident enough to go out and approach women, take the denials, but keep going back for more, not from the same woman of course.
"Women don't want me, I look like crap"
Did somone tell you that or is that just yourself talking? The first step is to be confident with yourself, you come first, and everyone else after. You have one life to live, and one body to control. Wanna be that guy with women flocking to him? That guy knows he's on top and he shows it. Women want a confident man. If you don't like something about yourself, stop complaining and do something about it. Join a gym or club, buy some new clothes, get a haircut; whatever makes you happy about yourself. You have the power to control one person, yourself.
So what's the real key to getting women? Be confident about who you are. Say to yourself "I am god". Go out and meet people. To truly master the game, you have to feel it yourself. Reading internet articles isn't going to give you experience, just give you the means and ideas to do it with. _________________ "Life isn’t about how hard you can hit
but how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward." - Sylvester Stallone
“You is a fluid concept”— Hitch
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