Ok, I've looked everywhere, and either there's no info on this, or I'm blind. I'm "Best" friends/Like a Brother/ Designated Cock Block/(my favorite) A boyfriend without benefits with several hb's and I've decided to risk a friendship for the sake of finding a way out, without going all afc.

To fill you in they've all seen me at my best, and my worst. I think the main issue here is that they all still view me as the insecure, unconfident, shy 15 year old I used to be.

Now, I'm trying some tactics, and slowly seeing success. I've been doing everything to show them that I'm a different person. Things like, not being available 24/7, being fun and exciting, using game on them, and improving my look as much as possible.

I'm slowly documenting what I'm doing, in case there is no info. I plan on building a routine just for this situation of getting out.

If any of you have any advice, experience, or know where to find information on this topic, please let me know. This could save many people who get trapped, or are already trapped.

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Stop looking in those books. Heres the best advice you'll get. Stop being a fucking pansy and acknowledge that you have a dick and balls. You are making these girls turn down their sexuality for you and in the process weeding yourself into the friend zone. Tension is good, stop shying away from it.

dude, your a jack ass, the best kind of person to be giving advise, they never hold anything back. That is what I've been doing recently, just being as attractive as I can, and turning them on and then down whenever they show interest, but I follow the 2 steps forward 1 step back rule.

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