| So I kept my promise and here I post.
And, it surely does work.
Additionally, I made a little thought about stories. I agree with Juggler on this one. He says that the stories should be not as interesting, as interestingly said. I mean, you can have a hell of a story, but if you say it wrong, it is shit. Much better is to train yourself skills to tell stories. After that, U can take anything from your day (from co-workers to TV) and make it interesting. It is good for couple of reasons. First, you will stop re-telling your stories by other people (you have no profit of this, because usually it is "a story from friend of mine", not "he-and-he said me this interesting story, plus, even if your name is mentioned, it can make you look bad becouse of persons' not having the right converstional skills). Then, you will subconsciously make your speech interesting, like you were telling a good story.
Also, never tell other people about your late-night trips, and how somebody embarassed himself. It does depend of person and of embarassment, so you have to judge it very well. I, for instance, almost got ass-kicked today, so I have fresh memories. Another reason is, it will come off as hidden bragging, and it rarely does its purpose, that is entertain/impress. Much better is going somewhere with girl, and then together talk about interesting things you have seen or did as a couple (not intimate things, but seeing a car accident or so).
Pepole, any questions or suggestions are welcome.
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