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PostPosted: Wed May 21, 2008 3:56 pm 
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You can actually be a nice guy. Just don't be a weak one. You can't just make her chase you all the time for nothing. So what if you leave a rose on the pillow for her once in a while. These romantic "AFC" things do have their place and to forget them all together turns you mildly retarded as far as a relationship goes.
That's some good advice. ;) I always say a bit AFC'nes is always needed. If you're really good with women you have to tone it down.

Anyway, I would tell her not having sex with her wouldn't prove anything. Worst case scenario if want to stay with her, make a compromise. Going a month without sex isn't a big deal, but 3 months is pushing it, lol.

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Correct me if I'm mistaken, but sex in a relationship shouldn't be looked at as a reward for the guy. People have sex because it is enjoyable for both of them. The fact that she's even trying to withhold sex to control you makes me think that maybe she's not getting physically fulfilled during sex. If you stack her orgasms and give her the best sex of her life then she should be begging you for more.

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that's exactly the problem, because the fact that im in the seduction community, i dont act AFCish, i dont supplicate to this woman i dont buy her flower and cholocate, i sometimes dont return her text. i cancel dating once in a while. she told im the first guy that treat her "shit" and that i make her sad, she says i dont care about her enough. btw i took her virginity.

pretty much, she wants me to act more like an afc coz that's something shes used to or she not laying me.
Well the tune of my post will be a bit different then some others.

Your wrong...(this doesnt mean shes right)

Too many guys have this missconcept. PUA doesnt excuse us from having manners and morals. If your serious about her, dateing exclusively, as others pointed out its ok to be nice. This also doesnt mean you need to be a push over, but its ok to buy her something everyonce in a while or have a heart to heart talk with her.

She doesnt know how to handle how your treating her and is using the only leverage she feels she has.

Id go with Zigs advice, flip it on her in a careing way. Comprimise is not a negative thing always. If your options are nothing or something....something is always better then nothing. So if you can have sex at the expense of being a little more emotionally available or not have a relationship the choice is obvious.

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