Ok, I need a bit of advice on what do here. I am really struggling to apply any PUA logic I have learned.

One of my ex-girlfriends rang me up out of the blue not long ago. I was really pleased, she meant a lot to me, and we didn't have a big bust up or anything.

Having been chatting everyday for about a month and really building a bond she has just stopped calling all of a sudden. Last time we spoke I think she had seen her ex-boyfriend and so I am a bit worried!

As far as I can work out she has stopped communication for one of three possible reasons, either:
(a) She did something she is feeling guilty about with her ex.
(b) She is thinking about getting back with her ex and he is trying to win her round.
(c) She is testing me to see if I chase after her.

It has been 5 days since we spoke (we were speaking several times a day), in the first few days I sent a few SMSs and called her a few times. At the moment I am leaving it to her to call me, why should I chase her - I'm the prize right? And I've shown my willing.

But, to me my actions depend on her reason for not calling. If it is (a) then it seems sensible to me wait for her to call me and let her feel guilty, if it is (b) then I am a bit worried to let myself slip out of her life and let her ex take over, at the same time I don't want to seem desperate or pressurize her, if it is (c) then I may be failing the test by not calling too much, but it still seems possibly the thing to do. So perhaps I need a good explanation of why I didn't pass the test, whilst still keeping a strong frame.

I know I am obsessing of this a bit, and yes I know I should go out and meet other women and let her take her time to realise I am what she wants. BUT, of all the girls I have met whilst gaming she is the most special and she really means a lot to me. I know I have read somewhere that one thing the game does is help you learn skills for when you meet the right girl. I am worried that I might lose this girl if I don't play this right.

Any thoughts, or similar situations would be very gratefully received. Thanks.

forget about it, all she called for was emotional support, i'm guessing you mainly talked about her, chances are she was going though some troubles.

there is no reason why you can't call her,
try this
call her
you - hey, got this song in my head "quote lines from a song" what is it?
her -' i don't know, -or something along those lines'
you- 'find out and call me back' click


if she doesn't call back in 10 mins call her '"quote artist" fat lot of good you were,' Click.

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basically call her up just for the hell of it, but don't try to make arrangements or talk about your life.




you need to relax she is an X, they have tendencies to fall back on past lovers when they fealing a bit down. what may of happened is that you demonstrated something that you did that made her break up with you.



Or she has things going on in her life, so sit back game elsewhere , 'a watched kettle never boils'


all the best, let me know how you do.

I have to side with monday here.. The fact that she was also talking to her other ex should have told you somthing.. When it comes to ex's your best bet is to stay away. nothing good can ever come of it and the chance of getting hurt is 10x bigger..

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i have a friend going through the samething really he likes this girl and she wants to go back to her ex. so he came to me for help and when we were txting her we start sliping in cute things and show her that u can be smooth. but with the calling thing i would call her and just started talking to her to make her feel like she is lucky to have you and she should pick you because i am better then this other guy. but u no this girl more then this other use that!!!!
CALL HER u can do it i believe in u because u no a lot about this girl.
and when u call her give her a curveball because the more she thinks about u is the better. what i mean about a curveball is confuse her a little bit to make she think about u more and she ask herself "why did he say that what does he mean" but that keeps her thinking about u and not that other guy

This is a bit risky but....

Step 1: call her and talk about other girls, see how she reacts. Make it short and sweet.

Step 2: Then tell her you have another call and that you will call her right back...don't call back.

Step 3: Come back on here and give us details on how things went/what was said/etc. We will take it from there...

Hmm, unfortunately she is not even picking up or I would try some of those things. Thanks for the ideas though.