I just don't have game!!!!

I tried to game the 7, but she actually gets so bored with me that she leaves after a few minutes. I don't know what to do, she even likes my wing more than me. WHY!???

He doesn't know the game at all, but I can see her giving out IOI like hell to him. She even TRIES to touch him, but can't, cause she's nervous. I see her pointing her whole body to him, and ignoring me. I don't know what to do anymore!!!!

I'm relaxed, cool, confident, happy, but I still see no improvement in gaming her!!!! The fat chick next to her, yea, she likes me. But I don't fucking care!!! I want your friend, not you "fat chick"!

To make things worse, every time I realize I'm gaining no game on the 7, I walk away and the fat chick follows me!!!! She will try to comfort me, but I don't want her to. I want her to leave me alone, she screws up my image, dammit!

At least my wing is fucking loyal, so he won't game my target, but it feels so hopeless, like there's nothing I could do to get her. I'll sarge her best friend (not the fat chick, just another 7), and see what happens. I have one-itis and it's killing me.

I already know that I should get over her, and find a new target, but it's hard. I'm going to another town for a while when the exam ends, so I can always sarge there. The time away will probably do me good. We are planning to go peacock like hell and pick up chicks every night. It's gonna be really fun.

But until then, I still have to look at this chick and say to myself "Your a 7! Your a 7 and I can't get you!!!! Why!!??"

Oh well, I'll game her friend(not the fat chick). This will probably be a good distraction from her until the holidays...

Yes, just random frustration I have to get out. If you guys have advice, please share it, I'll appreciate it.

Read Mode One?

The author states that in some cases a woman just won't be attracted to you, no matter what you do. To her there's just something about you that she stops attraction and no technique can work around it.

Maybe this is one of those times.

i think youre putting too much impotartance into this one chick (youre putting the pussy on a pedestil)
maybe when you game this 7, youre displaying too much intrest
and it seems like youre being very dependant on the outcome
if you want her you have to be willing to lose her (turn-arounds; freezeouts)

did you build enough attraction before you moved into the other stages?
dhv to her fat friend and neg your target
when you get maadddd IOI's then she is attracted
and start qualifying her (you love to pick your nose? i love a woman that can pick her nose)
then just get to know her and kino
make plans to do something that you both like to do and then time-bridge or instant date

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Hey thanks Dj. Truth is I was just very frustrated with her that day(mainly cause she likes my wing). Truth is, I fucked up with this girl allot.

First off, a few months ago I found out she likes me, but I didn't like her much, so I was kind of cold to her.
Then, I started liking her, but she got a boyfriend. Finally she broke up with him and I had my chance.

I followed this pattern:

I'd insult her like hell, saying things like "your a witch, your a real witch!" Anyway, after a while she would come up to me and say she's sorry. (I could taste my success! She's sorry, even though she didn't do anything wrong!!! )

But I didn't break quite yet... I said "You BETTER be sorry." This was so classic. It worked like a charm.

A few minutes later another girl showed up, at this moment my target was standing right in front of me. I tell the new girl how cool she is and how the target sucks.

Before the target could even react, I grabbed her and hugged her. I laughed a little bit, shut up, and we hugged for about three minutes. (I'm not joking)

Here's where I fucked up: A few minutes after we hugged, I started negging her again. She just stopped caring right there, and said things like "so what" from there on.
She was tired of being played.

Guys, the only thing I did wrong was negging her too early after the hug. I should have showed her how much I like her for at least a few days.
I won her over, I didn't need to neg her anymore, but I did and it cost me.

Congratulations! I'm happy for you. My opinion is that problem was in the fat girl. 'cause, girls talk. And if fattie talked with her about you, how much she likes you etc etc etc then it's possible your target "sacrificed" herself, that means she stop didn't fall for you so hef r friend would be open. I can't exactly say it (not with Metallica in Winamp) but I think hottie went back so her fat friend had chance to get you. You know, she wanted her friend to have some fun too, especially because she is fat and ugly. Once you became "something better" than ordinary alpha male, she wanted you. This is my opinion.

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You know, I should just leave this girl and her group alone. They are of absolutely no use to me at this moment. I don't even feel like I'm the 7's friend anymore. And everyone in the group kind of makes me feel like I'm not really welcome. (Except the fat chick, duh)

This is in reality just restricting my game, and causing me pain. There are so many hotter girls I could be gaming, but I set my energy on a 7 who liked me a bunch of months ago. It's really a pointless exercise.

This is the part where I decide to step up to my one-itis and say "fuck you". There are a shit load of better girls to game.

-Amen

Haha jack I feel you mate I really do,..haha same shit is happening to me I am even staying home on a saturday due to a bloody conferance party my friends are at..since we dont work at the same place Im fuuuuucked and forced into solitude..bleh guess whos going there AHAHAHAH my oneitis..im bummed out of luck someone hates me up there well my friends going there and guess what he likes her as easy as that I am confident he does..im even suspecting he's giving me a hard time gaming her talking bad shit behind my back..but then again that could be paranoia, moahahahahaha hehe mate what I am trying to say is so fuckign what your oneitis does not give a monkey's ass about you, shiit why would you care your one of us

WE DONT GIVE A SHIT, MAGGOT!

Mohahahaha

okay okay my mental health is shit this weekend why should'nt it be..hahaha

So know what mate fly your ass to sweden and Ill get us some Punani and we can both fuck our sorrows away

B


pst...I feel like a mental wreck..my ex is in my head, my new oneitis is fuck this is crowded...even my two timing friend has a spot here fucking maggot..

forget about her. go meet other girls. after all, scarcity is attractive. however WE know there's plenty of fish and all that jazz. listen, i also tend to occupy my mind with a girl all to often.although i think right now i'm getting three-itis lol.to a polygamist, i'd be an AFC. but yeah, options are good. nothing like new prospects to wash away the stink of despertion.

I was actually going to reply some advice. But everyone here is pretty much on the right track.

I agree that the fat chick told your target that she likes you, and the target backed off, and wont come near you because of that. What you need to do is qualify the target, and use some NLP techniques, maybe tell her a story that has a hidden meaning that she can work out for herself.

I think all the negging has deter her from you completely. Or you could isolate her, game 2 girls and bring them in that set, introduce them to your target, change your frame and pull the target out, get your wing to sit on the fat chick. You can buy him a beer later.

-Impact

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Relax, relax, relax.

I agree w. the fat chick thing....but here's something you could try.

Maybe you are not as cool and confident as you think you are. Maybe it comes off as you trying to hard...If there's anyway for you to find out...do it.