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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 3:19 pm 
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I have found a girl that I really like and I may be out of the game for a while, I have have even severed ties with my fuck buddy.The only problem is I think she is on to me about the game, she calls me a Manwhore just based on my attitude, which I think is a good thing because I am now becoming a natural. Any how should I ever tell her about my involvement in picking up women, or take it to the grave?


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 3:28 pm 
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If she called you a manwhore, what do you think you should do? Chances are you'll fuck things up with her, I don't see what the huge fascination is with telling girls about this. It's rarely a good idea.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:31 pm 
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You have a point but in his case the girl sounds like she would look at it very negatively and it would blow his chances. Telling girls about this kind of thing is best left for later stages in the relationship if at all, personally I wouldn't tell her full stop. It's not like I'm using these skills to get other girls behind her back and hide them from her, but the fact of the matter is that I could do that if I wanted to... so why tell her I have the skills to do so and put ideas in her head unnecessarily?


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DHV PUA to study of social psychology. Say you have done reading on how people intereact and you have applied that to your life. Dont use the terms pick-up, too many negative connotations.


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Loose lips sink ships.

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:57 pm 
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As mentioned before, you can talk about how you are interested in social behaviour and interaction, but don't talk about picking up girls. It will only make you look bad in her eyes (manwhore) and make her scared (when will you trade HER in for a newer model).

And if you are having problems with your consciouness.. Remember, You're just another guy! While you were single, you tried to hit on girls, its no big secret, she knows it too, but don't go bragging to her about your gazillion lays, won't do any good.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:20 pm 
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I'm contemplating this question as well. If you decide to do it let me know how it turns out... I'll do the same if I do.


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Probably the best way of saying it.

Not to mention if you tell her about it, what's she to think?
In her eyes she'll look at you differently and wonder if it was even the real you that she likes. Nothing good can come of it.


Just do yourself a favor and keep it to yourself.

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Take it to the grave. Nothing good can come from telling her.


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Take it to the grave. This is not something that women should know about. They have their own little secretes and we have ours.

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