Awright man, here's my advice:
1. I personally shave my balls every other day, so when I get a blowjob, she gets a Cockmeat Sa'amwich!
When you do shave your junk,remember that you barely have to put any pressure on the razor,and just let it glide over the hair, and repeat this as many times as necessary until all of the hair is gone,if you do this regularly, the skin down there will toughen up and over time you can even "Dry-shave". I leave the hair on my legs, but I do shave my ass and for good measure I also use depilatory cream just in case I "Stubble up"
2.When you're close to cumming, you tell her so if she does swallow, you can let her do her thing!(I personally like to get em' to suck my dick again after I bust off and get all of the sperm outta there, but some women do, some don't but you won't know unless you try it. My issue is that I tend to cum a lot and I even had some chick suckin' me so hard that when I did "unload the cannon", cum was dripping outta her nose and and over her face. It was at that moment I couldn't remember what attracted me to her in the first place."
IF SHE
DOESN"T SWALLOW, you are to yank your dick outta her mouth and right before the last possible second ask em' where do they want it. (I like to aim for their hair, you know, save em' on protein rinses and I figure it's a win-win situation for both of us, but some chicks get all pissed about goo in their do, so you gotta ask em' so you can find out "Under her pits or on her tits",on her back or on her crack" make her tell you so you don't do something stupid like just blowin' your load anywhere and hitting the dog! (Don't laugh, it happened to me once, this HB8 had a fuckin' Pomeranian which is a long assed name for yappy fuckin' rat in my book, and I was getting ready to bust off and he got out of his kennel and was barking his yappy fuckin' head off at the bedroom door just as I was planning to unload both balls on his master's ass! Needless to say, my plan went seriously awry when: a)I was blowing my load in that direction, b)That was the direction the dog was in, and c) the dog had his mouth wide open...the night did not end well, and no good for either of us came from the end result!)
3.If she expects a kiss...? Well, that mainly depends on you, my friend and let me elaborate.........
You are the PUA! Fuck what anybody else thinks!(
No disrespect to ZIP) As for the aggressive...Once she enters the bedroom with me, Her ass is mine!(As well as her mouth, pussy and Tits too! UNLESS she says stop, cause I'm not catching a rape charge! At which point I Iceberg (Freeze-out) that ass until I get my way) And even though I don't use Gunbitch's Method to attract,I DO agree with his teachings to an extent once I am in the bedroom with them I literally "Make the ho say no", or"no more" once I get em' to bed! I even told this fucking gorgeous stewardess that she was gonna "have to buy her pussy a cast when I was done with her!" I take CAVEMAN technique one step further in the bedroom, and I'm a pretty big guy, so I'll throw her down on the bed and rip her panties off and make her almost scared that I'm going to maul that ass! I don't leave marks, but I do leave memories. If you do plan on swapping spit with her afterwards, the glass of water thing is one I use, but I take it one step further and bring a towel and some mouthwash (I recommend Scope) too.
If you don't wanna kiss her ass then don't. Or use one of my favorites:
"I just don't feel like it" or the ever popular "Let's just lie here and cuddle" oh, they eat that up when you triangular gaze em' right after a good hard fuck!